I had a miscarraige on 8 Dec 06. Just all of a sudden I started bleeding. This was my first pregnancy. I was careful in everything I did, taking my vitamins daily. I was really upset at losing my baby at only 7 weeks along. My husband and I are trying again to get pregnant. My worry is, I don't want this to happen again. I really want a baby and want to be able to carry it full term. Any advice? Has this happened to you? What are my chances of successfully carrying a child the full 9 mos, the second time around?
2007-02-17 03:25:47 · 13 answers · asked by Chili 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
My friend had 7 miscarriages before she became pregnant with her twin boys. She carried ever one till 3 months exactly and miscarried them. The doctor could not figure out why, and when she got pregnant with twins, the doctor knew right away it was different and she carried them full term.
My aunt had 3 miscarriages, and they figured out, her body wasn't accepting boys. She could carry girls full term, but miscarried the boys.
Every one is different, everyone has miscarriages for different reasons. Just stay positive, and good luck.
2007-02-17 03:46:13 · answer #1 · answered by Proud Mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey...don't worry.
I had a miscarriage when I was 12 weeks pregnant. The twins had died at 10 weeks, and they came out at 12.
I just had a baby a year ago. I want to be pregnant again soon, and STILL worry about miscarriage.
Miscarriage is so common, and it doesn't mean you will always have them! That is why most obgyn's won't even SEE you until you are at least 8 weeks pregnant. Many many women don't get past the 8 week point and miscarry.
I really recommend that you take prenatal vitamins MONTHS before deciding to get pregnant, then take them religiously while you are pregnant. Something as simple as a vitamin can prevent birth defects and possibly a miscarriage.
Make sure you EAT! Don't worry about eating only healthy stuff. Eat lots of calories for the first 2 months. Very important.
It might happen again, actually. We are not guaranteed anything. My cousin had 3 miscarriages, but since then has given birth TWICE.
Have faith, don't be afraid. Keep trying. TAKE YOUR VITAMINS!
2007-02-17 03:33:41 · answer #2 · answered by gg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A miscarraige is your bodys way of getting rid of something that is not right with the baby. I had a miscarraige and 4 months later I was pregnant and have a healthy 18month old. Just dont worry about it. Chances are that you will have a full term pregnancy.Good luck.
2007-02-17 03:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by Misty B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best this is just to accept what has happened. I know it is painfull as I have been there. I have 3 miscarraiges, one at 9 months, one at 26 weeks by c-section one at 20 weeks also by c-section, I have a 7 year old son also born preterm 28 weeks also by c-section. I am now 18 week preg and this will be my 4th c-section and I am not worring at all. There are so many complication nowadays and I would suggest that you just relax and I promise you will fall preg soon. I tried for one full year to fall preg, at first I was stressing each month I discovered I was not preg and then I was advised to take things easy, relax and enjoy my sex life and I discovered I was preg again. Good luck, just tell yourself God will may a way for you. as he works in ways we do not see.
2007-02-17 03:42:35 · answer #4 · answered by Joker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things always happen for a reason, it may not have been anything you did. A miscarriage usually happens when the fetus dosn't form properly. I would wait a few month before trying again, so your body could heal a little. Having a miscarriage is a very traumatic even for you, and your body. For now take the vitamins, eat very healthy and exercise. Talk to your doctor about other the chances. having a 2nd miscarriage back to back is rare, but not unheard of. Good luck, and sorry about your loss.
2007-02-17 03:36:21 · answer #5 · answered by Tasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definitley feel your pain. Before my husband and I got married we were going to have a baby, but we had a miscarriage. His first son. Then I went through lost and the fear you are talking about. Then the emptiness came. He should be doing this and he should be doing that I should be giving birth today that sort of stufff. So I said Honey I need to have a baby I feel so empty. So we tried and about 9 months later tried and we got pregnant. Now I have a beautful 18 month old baby girl and in about another two weeks my husband will have his son. So I hope things wiork out for you and you and your husband a baby soon. But don't give up hope.
2007-02-21 01:31:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in your exact situation last year. I had a miscarriage on my first pregnancy at about 2 months. It was very scary but I talked to a few doctors and they told me I did everything right and one miscarriage does not increase your odds of a second. We got pregnant about one month afterwords and just delivered a happy healthy baby girl 2 weeks ago.
To quote WebMD
After a miscarriage, am I at risk for miscarrying again?
Miscarriage is usually a chance event, not a sign of an ongoing reproductive problem. If you have had one miscarriage, your chances for future successful pregnancies are good. Less than 1% of women have three or more miscarriages in a row (called recurrent miscarriages).8
If you have had three or more miscarriages, talk to your health professional about testing and treatment for a possible underlying cause.
2007-02-17 03:34:50 · answer #7 · answered by L B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had miscarriage 2 years ago. i lost my baby at 9 weeks. its so distressing. it tokk me a firther 18 months to conceive again, im now 16 weeks pregnant and the first 12 weeks of this pregnancy i worried about my baby every single day, then i seen its little heartbeat and seen it moving on the screen and i knew everything was going to be ok this time. there is no reason why you cant carry your next baby full term. good luck
2007-02-17 03:32:52 · answer #8 · answered by Şơƥɦɨȩ'ȿ ♡Μυɱ˗Μυɱ♡ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that depends ive had 3 miscarriages before i had my son but while pregnant this last time for my son i was bleeding it turned out i had a blood factor that could terminate any pregnancy so you should get tested for the Rh factor im Rh negative and thats what caused most of my miscarriages and the bending thing you should be fine just when you load and unload dryers you should use your knees to lift not your back hope this helps and good luck
2016-05-23 22:36:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had two miscarraiges before having my boys i have 3 , you just need to relax it usually doesnt happen twice . i was terrified in early pregnancy on my pregnancies but once i got over 12 weeks i relaxed and enjoyed being pregnant . next time try to relax take care of your self and hopefully all will go perfectly for you next time round. oh and im sorry for your loss !!
2007-02-17 03:41:20 · answer #10 · answered by fionaon2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋