My friend is a lesbian. When we get changed at our netball club she always watches and the other day made a comment a bout my underwear. She has strated following me and my other mates about. She is very clingy and it is startin to freak us all out.
2007-02-17 03:20:42 · 19 answers · asked by Sam C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Simply remind her occasionally that you're not a carpet muncher, and would appreciate it if she respected that fact by composing her lustful gestures toward you...
2007-02-17 03:25:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
What sort of 'comment'..? Straight girl friends talk about that sort of thing all the time - are you sure you're not reading into it because you're uncomfortable with her sexuality? Just becasue she's a lesbian doesn't necessarily mean she wants to sleep with you!
It sounds a bit like there's a bit of pack mentality going on here and you and your other friends are winding each other up about just how 'freakish' she's acting. It's easily done but horrible to be on the receiving end of. Have you tried just giving her a chance?
2007-02-18 21:32:02 · answer #2 · answered by tabasc_oh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you might be a little homophobic. Just tell her that she's making you feel a little uncomfortable. Maybe ask her if she's attracted to you. If she is take it as a compliment but assure her that no offense but you play for the other team. If you bring it out into the open it may rid the air of the uneasiness of the situation. Good Luck
2007-02-17 03:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by blastabuelliac 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her straight. I had the same problem when I was at college (many years ago) with a touchy feely Russian girl. It went on for about a year, 'till she touched my crotch, I lost my rag & ended up telling her. I felt bad afterwards but was glad I did 'cos she left me alone then. xxx
2007-02-17 05:57:57 · answer #4 · answered by Joanne W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two options:
start taking testosterone and wearing a strapon.
or
live with the fact that 1/10 women are gay and you're only nervous of this lass because you know about it
2007-02-21 02:58:50 · answer #5 · answered by HesterHughes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-05 02:37:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make it clear to her that while you like her as a friend it goes no further than that and that her looking at you and commenting about your underwear makes you uncomfortable and you would prefer her not to do it.
2007-02-17 04:40:54 · answer #7 · answered by thedaddy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it don't freak out maybe she is trying to blend in.and if you are afraid of her don;t be her friend it would be a lie and she and you would be better off
2007-02-17 03:26:44 · answer #8 · answered by ann p 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
could u give me her e-mail or phone number i like lesbians they taste nice
2007-02-21 00:49:31 · answer #9 · answered by Kyle S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then tell her straightly that u don't like this & dont be so clingy on u, U hate it.
2007-02-17 03:31:19 · answer #10 · answered by Fahim . 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋