There's a boy. It's such a jerk and he brags that his family has more money other people. He only dates rich girls and I just feel like punching him. He says he hates me and all of that. He even said it to me at one dance and I yelled back that i hate him too. But there's a problem. I kinda like him and I know he's going to break my heart if I fall for him any more. so here are the 2 questions. Why are some guys jerks and how can I not fall for him? (He's super cute!)
2007-02-17 03:14:29 · 6 answers · asked by Heather 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Some guys are jerks, and some aren't.Heck, some girls are jerks, too.It all depends on the way you were brought up.This boy you're having troubles with seems pretty spoiled, brought up in a wealthy family.If he only dates rich girls, that's his loss, because middle-class people and below can be great in relationships, as well.Anyone can be great in a relationship-it doesn't depend on an individual's wealth status.He probably only dates rich girls because his parents don't want someone to use him for his money.It's stupid, but there's nothing we can do.
As for you trying not to fall for him-you don't have to hate him, you don't have to love him, you don't even have to talk to him.In fact, ignore him.He won't act like a jerk to you, and you will resist from falling for him.It's not about a person's loooks, it's their personality that counts.And if you feel like punching him because he's a snobby jerk, that's enough to convince you that he's just not your type.
Take care
Lissa
2007-02-17 03:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have answered your own question....for to say you hate someone is a very strong emotion...and to hate, is not good for one so young...a strong dislike would be better. if you think you will fall for him and know he will treat you bad, then no matter how cute he is, it is time to move on and stay away from him....for looks are not everything...you can be a super model and still be an insensitive jerk and no one will want to be around you, and the same goes for not so pretty guys and gals...look are not important...personality and brains are...
2007-02-17 12:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by phishsports 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if guys havent yet matured, then they act like jerks. and it takes some time to mature. obviously, this guy that you fancy hasnt matured yet, coz mature guys dont brag about their wealth, and more so embarass women especially in public. maybe your guy doesnt have a good role model at home too thats why he is acting that way and maybe thinks that its cool. how to not fall for him? easy, look for another guy to focus ur atttention. when u find him, u will forget that the first guy really existed! goodluck girl! move on!
2007-02-17 11:28:16 · answer #3 · answered by mela 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if you dont like the person your not really falling for them you just think they sre cute. Be true to yourself!! If you are being true to yourself you wouldnt fall for a jerk like that.It is deff not worth it!If he only dates rich girls to bad for him he is deffinatly missing out.lol Best of Luck!!
2007-02-17 11:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by brunette234 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IF you don't like a person's personality, you can't fall for him or her....
2007-02-17 11:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by funnyzombies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
punch him
2007-02-17 11:19:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋