one of the boys, what should I do?
2007-02-17 03:09:33 · 11 answers · asked by Stu 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
don't be judgemental. his sexual orientation as nothing to do with whether he is a good or bad person. you may not like his orientation, but who are you to condemn him as an individual. look for who he is, not what he is.
2007-02-17 03:21:36 · answer #1 · answered by de bossy one 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's still one of the boys and aren't you lucky to have such diversity in your friendship circle!!
Difference should be celebrated and if you can get your head around it early in your life, you'll be a great person to be around and be a valued friend.....!!!
Oh and the first answer you received from 'May' I would strongly advise you ignore it ..... small mindedness is an evil quality to have especially if you're stupid enough to believe anyone is impressed by it..... I hope 'May' finds out a family member is gay - although 'May' would probably be the last person they would feel safe enough to confide in - where as you are probably pretty cool and that's why your friend has shared this with you - where as 'May' probably hasn't got any friends in the first place......poor sad 'May' - also a funny ironic point to note - 'May' has a rainbow on her ad-var - so she's flying the GAY FLAG!!!! LOL ignorance is ridiculous - stupid,stupid,stupid, 'May'.....
2007-02-17 11:17:27 · answer #2 · answered by keriandjelly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So how do you know he's gay! Have you asked him or listened to rumours and stupid playground chatter! Has he told you this!
Get your facts straight before you make decisions or make judgement - and if he is gay - so what - is he pressuring you to be his b i t c h - probably not - so what is the problem - I have a load of gay friends and they are brilliant people -
2007-02-17 11:16:40 · answer #3 · answered by jamand 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you thought he was one of the boys does that acceptance not make him one? He hasn't suddenly become gay, he always has been, and has probably known he is for a long time. Therefore your knowing he is hasn't changed him - it's changed you.
2007-02-17 11:20:05 · answer #4 · answered by Mordent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He IS one of the boys. You shouldn't treat him any differently to how you have been treating him - the only thing that's different now is your attitude to him, now you know he's gay. Get over it!
2007-02-17 18:53:44 · answer #5 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Ok think this way... what if you mate turned otu to be a wookie like chewbacca, a nice warewolf who was a nice wolf not a nasty one, what if he was an alienc but the same nice mate.? would you stop being mates?
how about if left handed... thats not normal
Stay his friend... He is probably frightened of how you feel and loosing his mates...
Put yourself in his shoes.
Incidently think like this
He can be enormous help to you in pulling girls...
For one you can trust your girlfriend with him, he aint gonner steal her.
But also gays often have lots of girl mates.
Also you know how guys love trying to pull or convert lesbians?
Well many girls want to convert gay guys and be their first girl...
he could coach you how to act a little gay but not be 100% sure. And maybe girls may try hard to convert you... real hard.
ie get with their makes and feel themselves up whilst you watch. kiss you all over, give you lap dances and show you their boobs but you still say nope thats still does not trun me on...
Ive seen that kind of thing happening... the girl (we were all board on a film set) was very fit and very flexible was crawling like a cat on the table and practically lapdancing him. He thought it very funny. We all had our legs crossed thinking its bloodywell working on us and giving him the thumbs up.
Also gays will get to know bi sexaul girls.
Bi sexaul girls tend to like 3 somes.
Pity if you lost your mate as acted like a dick.
You miss out on those 3 somes.
Also gays may get invited to girls pyjama parties in their sexy nighties as 'one of the girls'. Now again if coached you may be able to get in pretending to be gay.
or he may sneak in a camera.
Think about it.
Also often gays get in the media and meet lots of sexy model types and do their makeup. (may need an assistant) or do nude photoshoots.
Also gays through great parties. Also then to be real fit so could teach you healthy food and good exercises for that six pack which gets the ladies wanting to lick said six pack going down.
So saty friends...
Gays also are often very funny and fun to be around as always joking around.
Or say a girl may come over and fancy him as well dressed... but alas hes gay. However his best mate isn't.
Hes still you mate... Just as hes gay does not mean he is going to jump your bones or want to butt shag you as
A) you aint gay
B) gays have standards and whoes to say you are his type
C) Your his mate
As for moral wise...
Who burnt alive thousands if not millions, was involved in terrorisim, bombings, sexsim, mass organised child abuse?
the gays or the church?
2007-02-17 13:38:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't behave any differently. Gays only go for gays, if he knows you aren't one, he won't be of any threat to you
2007-02-17 11:35:09 · answer #7 · answered by Angelfish 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
KEEP UR DISTANCE, NO1 WANTS A GAYBOY AS A FRIEND! U MIGHT GET INFLUENCED INTO HOMOVILLE!
2007-02-17 11:14:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make sure he knows ur not available!!!
2007-02-17 11:15:01 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's in your where?? No wonder you feel weird!
2007-02-17 11:32:33 · answer #10 · answered by New Boots. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋