2007-02-17 03:06:15 · 33 answers · asked by angie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Never....That is like giving him permission to do it again.....RUN and Run Fast
2007-02-17 03:07:58 · answer #1 · answered by ™ ♥♥♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If the cheating took place in the beginning of your relationship - let's say 3 years ago - and since then he has been faithful to you I think you should consider forgiveness and reconciliation. But if the cheating was taking place throughout your entire relationship or recently than I think you should think about dumping him and taking a brake from the dating scene for a moment, because you don't wanna look for a new boyfriend being on a rebound.
If your boyfriend cheated on you recently I CAN ASSURE you he will not change his habits. Eventually he will do it again thus it's up to you if you wanna forgive him but definitely you gotta let him go.
2007-02-17 03:14:07 · answer #2 · answered by theivorybrother 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess if you was his girlfriend almost for 4 years, there is something that makes you to be related to this person, something that belongs just to you and him. Try to talk to him and tell how much it hurts you to know what he was doing. Don't blame, as it is not recitative.
Sex is great, but it is not a feeling, mostly it is an instinct. there is big difference between having sex and love making. Guess he was getting his sex experience and fresh impressions.
Once I asked my ex boyfriend if he going to cheat when he will get a wife ( those days we were together and almost for 9 years new each other) and he told, guess - yes as almost everyone does it.
Later I learn many other things about him, and we broke apart. There was no chance to stay together, as when the man want to live you, he will not tell you anything, and will not ask for excuse.
Give him and your relationships another chance. Relationships it is something that just between you and him. Follow your heart.
2007-02-17 03:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Heartsong! Sweetie, you deserve SO much more than to be cheated on, lied to, deceived and disrespected. If he has done this three times he will ALWAYS do it again, no matter what he says. Would you want someone to do that to your own sister, best friend, or some other person you love? Then why would you allow this to be done to you? You do not deserve it. You have a right to respect and honor. Let him go and thank him for the opportunity to move on to someone else whom you do deserve. NOT HIM! Leave him now, Heartsong. There is so much life out there for you and someone who will respect you. You can do it!
2007-02-17 03:11:50 · answer #4 · answered by Emily F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all..what you need to think about is..Will he do it again? If he has cheated on you with 3 different girls and then told you about it..yeah he may feel guilty but that doesn't mean that he isn't going to do it again. Why should you waste your time on a guy that obviously has no remorse for what he's done? There are too many guys out there for you to be worried about him. It will take you a while to get over him and what he has done to your heart but trust me, I know from experience, you will get over it and you can definitely get over "HIM"!
2007-02-17 03:13:11 · answer #5 · answered by HALOGURL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It relies upon. If the dishonest occurred interior the initiating of your relationship - enable's say 3 years in the past - and because then he has been dedicated to you i think of you need to evaluate forgiveness and reconciliation. yet while the dishonest grow to be occurring in the time of your complete relationship or recently than i think of you need to think of roughly dumping him and taking a brake from the relationship scene for a 2d, considering you do no longer wanna look for a clean boyfriend being on a rebound. in the experience that your boyfriend cheated on you latterly i can assure you he won't substitute his behavior. ultimately he will do it lower back for this reason that's as much as you in case you wanna forgive him yet certainly you gotta enable him bypass.
2016-10-15 12:35:10 · answer #6 · answered by fugere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think that a person is more than the mistakes they make. Your relationship of four years (god, I can't even imagine) is more potent than a fling with three girls can take away. Don't let him back blindly; no way. He has a lot of trust to earn back from you and you have absolutely every right to make him work very hard for that trust...but personally, I couldn't just throw a meaningful, long term relationship away.
2007-02-17 03:12:34 · answer #7 · answered by Rosabelle Winters 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOOOOOOO! Anyone who cheats repeatedly CAN NOT be trusted. Drop him and move on. Don't waste another minute, another day on someone who doesn't love you, care for you and put you first. You deserve so much better than that. You teach people how to treat you. Don't teach him that you will tolerate everything and let him walk all over you! Make today the day you stand up for yourself and put yourself first. You're worth it. Good Luck!
2007-02-17 03:11:11 · answer #8 · answered by Kimmi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank him for his honesty now for telling you...but the fact he did cheat causes you trust issues and it going to take some time for me to forgive.....let him know how hurt you feel towards how he disrespected you. Tell him you would like to forgive him but at this time you just can't.....I'm sure he will respect you more and others will to for not just running back to him...good luck!
2007-02-17 03:12:17 · answer #9 · answered by sporty_kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you put up with this? Do you like the abuse? Cheat with 3 different guys and if he forgives you, than you forgive him. In other words, dumb the jerk.
2007-02-17 03:10:58 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men fool around because some women let them fool around. Your bf had hurt you before, you should not allow him to hurt you again Coz if you do he will always cheat on you thinking
that he'll be forgivin. Respect yourself, you deserve someone better than your boyfriend...
2007-02-17 03:32:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋