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sometime i find my cousins cute and i have had crushes on them it kinda wierd but my Uncle too

2007-02-17 03:03:43 · 15 answers · asked by lola 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

15 answers

Very weird!

2007-02-17 03:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by Backwoods Barbie 7 · 0 0

Not at all. Maybe I'd like to join your clan. I'm not bad looking, and have a sense of humor. Not abusive or anything like that.

Seriously though, it really isn't weird. They've noticed that people who live together in a family or communal situation are less often attracted to each other. Also, that the care you see given to another child in the family establishes how you feel about the caretaker (usually your mother) and how you feel about the other child, generally making them distasteful objects (as far as crushes/sexual attraction). They say this is why Sigmund Freud (the psychiatrist) was preoccupied with theories about a male's attraction to his mother. He had a wet nurse and she would have been taboo, while he would have been free to feel an attraction to his mother and be in competition with his father. So if they're cousins that you haven't been raised in the same house with, it really isn't unnatural to find them attractive. Same with your uncle. You shouldn't do anything about it though, since there are social (and legal) rules concerning that. But the crushes don't make you a bad or a strange person. You're normal.

2007-02-17 11:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It depends on how you are related. If it's like your 4th or 5th cousin, then, no it's not weird. But, your uncle, c'mon hun, that is just a tad bit weird!! Lol!! I go to school w/my cousin and I liked him for a while. But he is my 6th cousin. So, just make sure they're not too closely related!!

2007-02-17 11:11:02 · answer #3 · answered by emily 2 · 0 0

I can say my cousin is attractive, but I could never ever ever be attracted to him because he is family. There's a difference between adknowledging someone is attractive and having a crush on them

2007-02-17 11:14:43 · answer #4 · answered by Felicity 2 · 0 0

Not really.. I have some cousins that are bombshells! I joke with them all the time about how attractive they are.. Now if it is a sexual attraction.. That is a little weird.

2007-02-17 11:08:19 · answer #5 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0 0

I had a big crush on a cousin. It's normal. My Bother-in-law had a baby with his cousin.

2007-02-17 11:08:20 · answer #6 · answered by Jason 2 · 0 0

No its not weird, it would be weird if you asked him out though. There are some girls in my family (cousins) who are attractive, I just see them as family though.

2007-02-17 11:07:56 · answer #7 · answered by Tom 1 · 0 0

its normal cuz my friends do the same thing. i find my cousins to be cute too. am i sure everyone has problem

2007-02-17 11:08:34 · answer #8 · answered by Pookie! 4 · 0 0

If you are over 13, it's weird.

2007-02-17 11:06:12 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0 0

Weird N Nasty

2007-02-17 11:08:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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