I split with my boyfriend 2 weeks ago as i turned up at his and he had a lovebite on his neck. He has told me that nothing did happen and i have found out he is telling the truth. It doesn't change anything as i don't think i could ever trust him again. The problem is he still wants to be friends and he is really down...but i kissed someone last week and i'm really unsure whether to tell him before someone else does...or just leave it? i don't want him to hurt but I do think i should tell him the truth! What do i do??
2007-02-17 02:58:22 · 11 answers · asked by soph 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
firstly your not in the wrong here you have split for your boyfriend so it is none of his business who you kiss and besides he must have kissed someone too to have a love bite on his neck dont be feeling so guilty your not wrong move on with your life
2007-02-17 03:03:31 · answer #1 · answered by smiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad said his love bite was given by a mad stranger he passed on the street (when he came home at 3 am) guess what? He was having an affair and I got the burden of telling my mam - are you sure he's innocent? (sorry I'm still annoyed at my dad)
I think, if the two of you are both unhappy maybe talk things through and see where it goes?
But how can a lovebite be innocent? Unless he was held down by a few people? It takes a lot of sucking to make a mark.
2007-02-17 06:22:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK he might be telling the truth but why a love bite......? was it something he felt good with. So you kissed someone else you have split up so what! he might find out by someone else but you have both got lives to get on with OK it might hurt him but one day you will settle down and things will be different and you will forget about it soon anyway what makes you think that he might have gone with someone else and he might not tell you.
2007-02-17 03:19:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you accused your boyfriend of cheating, he denied it, turned out he was telling the truth, and in the meantime you made out with somebody else and claim you don't think you can trust him anyway? You sound WAY too immature to be in a serious relationship. I would have fun with your friends, date, practice safe sex, and give yourself more time to mature and know what you want in life.
2007-02-17 03:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Always tell the truth. How did he get a love bite if nothing happened?
2007-02-17 03:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by splandastic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, cuz your just friends, it is what he wants. Friends are upfront with each other. Just dont obses with relationship stuff yet, to early for that.
2007-02-17 03:06:02 · answer #6 · answered by Tom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU KISS THAT OTHER GUY AFTER YOU AND YOUR BOYFRIEND HAD BROKEN UP WHY SHOULD YOU TELL HIM. HE WASN'T THERE SO IT REALLY DOESN'T MATTER UNLESS YOUR CONSCIENCE DOESN'T LIVE BECAUSE YOU KNOW THAT YOU WHERE UN FEAR WITH HIM. I THINK YOU NEED TO SIT AND BE SINCERE WITH YOU THEN TAKE IT FROM THERE. GOOD LUCK.
2007-02-17 03:10:57 · answer #7 · answered by Milagros N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its nothing to do with him if you have split for good, if he finds out take it from there
2007-02-17 03:03:26 · answer #8 · answered by smity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you werent together when you kissed the other person then its none of your ex boyfriends business.
2007-02-17 04:50:06 · answer #9 · answered by thedaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get over it, you were split up, why care?
2007-02-17 04:08:42 · answer #10 · answered by honey xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋