there's this senior boy whom i really like..im a sophomore btw and iv known him for forever and iv liked him for about two years. anyway, he's known that i've liked him all this time. in November or so we started talking but then he stopped it...but then about a month ago he called me and was like 'hey stay afterschool we need to hang out' so i did
we ended up makin out in his car for like an hour or something..and we've been doing this since..
but everytime we do this, he doesnt really talk to me at school that much..
is he using me? i really like him..and this is cool still cuz he says he likes me and whatnot......
anyway..what should i do?
i dont wanna talk to him and mess everything up i want him to still like me and wanna talk to me...
what should i do??
please help..
2007-02-17 02:57:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
o yeah ps--
hes really weird about like everything.
like..
idk
hes got adhd like a mo fo..
im not so much worried about loosing our makeout ness as i am about loosing one of my best friends.
he was the one i would always talk to about stuff last year.
he took care of me..
he takes care of me this year too lol
just differently.
im like in love with this kid. lol
2007-02-17 03:11:50 · update #1
im not haveing sex with him
just alot of xo
2007-02-17 03:12:42 · update #2
haha this is like the millionth detail iv added..
i know all of his friends.
i go to a small school where everyone knows everyone else. iv known all these kids like my whole life or something. betweeen school, little league, soccer, and my outside of school activities, i know like everyone.
but yeah i know his family too...
i talk to his friends on the phone when they call him sometiems
so i dont worry bout that lol
thank you guys=)
2007-02-17 03:25:40 · update #3
o i meant love like..
i love my best friend
not romantic love
2007-02-17 03:26:17 · update #4
now even though we dont know him like you do if hes not treating the same in AND out of school hes most likely using you. not as a friend but as a "make-out buddy" just be careful cuz he may be a nice and wonderful guy but doesnt seem loyal in the "relationship department"
2007-02-17 03:26:24 · answer #1 · answered by ♥sexy_love♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is using you. If he liked you as much as the makeout sessions seem to suggest, he'd be open about it. But you are too young for all this and that is a factor, too. You may not even be sixteen so stay out of that situation.
If you are of age, and this is perfectly legal and acceptable, then he just wants to keep his options open. He thinks he's open to finding another girlfriend if nobody knows he's romantic with you.
This is not good! So, good for you for not having sex. And tell him you just want to be friends. Then get to know other boys in your grade, too, and chalk this up to experience.
2007-02-20 12:17:56 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please my dear i think you should know what you are doing, has he ever introduce you to any of his friends since you have been together? if he has not tell him you want to introduce him to your friend or relation if he agree that means he love you but he is a shy guy, since you love him, you still have to endure everything with time he will get use to you and love you. but be careful not to regret anything. good luck to you.
2007-02-17 11:17:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't want to talk to him in public because you're afraid he'll stop making out with you after school. sounds like something's wrong here. i think he's using you. confront him about it.... if you can stand the thought of losing your makeout sessions. maybe he really does like you. just ask him. i wouldn't make out with anyone who wasn't willing to call me their "girlfriend" and hang out with me in public. respect yourself!
2007-02-17 11:07:36 · answer #4 · answered by Emily H 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask him.. if he really cares about you, you will be able to tell from his answer.
Go Sophomores!!! :-D im one too
Reppin That Sexy Class of "09"
2007-02-17 21:16:08 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ĴỤiiČ¥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he might be thinkin the same thing that you are using him, so u guys just get together and talk about everything.
2007-02-17 13:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by C.C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i would make your own judgement on this until you find out stop having sex with him,it sounds like he is confused about his feelings towards you good luck with it xx
2007-02-17 11:10:25 · answer #7 · answered by sandy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sometimes boys can be lieing and they can be doing stuff behind your back.But u gatta now is that when yall are all done u can follow him and see what he does
2007-02-17 11:09:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
take time and you get the full picture by yourself
2007-02-17 11:04:15 · answer #9 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋