2007-02-17 02:57:34 · 11 answers · asked by nachomanhulk 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
how are you messing up your life?
my advice to whatever the problem is sit down, take deep breaths, and think practically, talk to someone who knows you well but don't ignore it or you will mess up your life.
act now and it wont be too late.
2007-02-17 03:02:40 · answer #1 · answered by Betty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, you don't say how or what you're messing up.
Whatever it is, you've taken the first step by recognising that you are messing up. What you need to do now is work out how to resolve the situation.
Remember, all things happen for a reason. I believe that our paths are mapped out, and Fate will always take us the way we are supposed to go. Obviously, other people might not believe that, but I have found that it helps me to get through sticky patches.
Also, when you come through these problems (and you will come through), look back on them and LEARN from them. You will become stronger through adversity.
I don't know how old you are, or where you're from! I've assumed that you're in the UK, so I've attached a link for Childline (0800 1111) and the Samaritans (08457 90 90 90, for the cost of a local call. In the Republic of Ireland dial 1850 60 90 90 local call rates)
Please don't be scared. There are lots of people out there who can help you. xxxxx
2007-02-20 17:08:24 · answer #2 · answered by catwoman6942 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry everybody has fears and anxiety's about where their life is heading, but admitting you've made mistakes is a very good start. Change is n't easy particularly when your so use to the present. But just try and do the right thing it may seem difficult at first but trust me you'll feel much more happier knowing you chose the right path, and probably look back at this and laugh!
2007-02-17 11:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by Zaina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I messed up in life and there was nothing that I could do. In my experience things get better on their own and if lifes bad now it wont be in the future. Everything that I messed up I've made better. I believe that what happens to us is whats supposed to be. Its just fate
2007-02-17 11:04:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't be scared, you should be glad that you noticed a bad pattern and path that you're heading....You need to get away from the bad influence that is around you and surround yourself w/ as much positivity that you can. You need to think what exactly what you're doing or who you're hanging out w/ that is the problem, its up to you if you want to get away from it and start ending it.
2007-02-17 11:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by sorrowlaughed25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our lives expand and contract in direct proportion to the courage we're willing to practice. Try new things. Be patient with yourself and observe you're faults. Never blame. Just do what you can. "What we can and can't do is largely determined by the amount of self-limitations we impose on ourselves.
2007-02-17 11:14:23 · answer #6 · answered by lawolifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We gotta know what you're doing........I'd love to help if I can. I messed up my life too, but I found the Way. I'm open to IM's....
2007-02-17 11:12:42 · answer #7 · answered by afewideas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you doing that you feel that you are just a #### up. what happen, you need to give more detail.. i felt like that was too. then i got high. that wasnt the answer. now i have found my self where i want to be
2007-02-17 11:17:48 · answer #8 · answered by Myrna S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can answer your question unless you elaborate a little.
2007-02-17 11:03:08 · answer #9 · answered by jacee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question too vague to answer.
2007-02-17 11:55:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋