Me and my boyfriend have been going through a really bad patch at the moment (constantly suspicious of each, arguing alot). It been hard since i moved away but i see him every 2 weeks. Last night he saw me flirting with this guy and dumped me straight away. He doesn't wanna speak to me and said he doesn't love me anymore. I love him so much, but i have no idea what to do. i'm leaving tomorrow and wont definatly wont see him for 2 weeks. What should I do????????????
2007-02-17 02:37:38 · 13 answers · asked by Darling_Bud 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Everybody flirts, its human nature, it doesnt mean you're being unfaithful!!! Do you really want to be with this jealous guy another minute? Seriously, you can have a lot more fun looking out for Mr Right and he doesnt sound like him to me. Dont get stuck in a miserable relationship, go and find that guy you were flirting with and flirt a little more! x
2007-02-17 03:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by missBambi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there is suspicion, first symptom of problem; if he can just drop you like a hot potato, second symptom; how can you love someone who can treat you so poorly that is the question, you are use to him; safe b/c you know him as oppose to someone else out there; but that someone can't find you while you are grieving for a failed relationship; he isn't that into you obviously, invest all this attention your way to invest in yourself, do something different , take a class, volunteer , give that pain up in a way to help others and then you can move on a little easier; you deserve more, why settle for less; go to an animal shelter and volunteer even if it is cleaning up poop b/c that is exactly what you are going with this guy ; at least a dog, will love you unconditionally ; etc; you can do better; breath and forget this one ; he isn't the one; it won't get better - run run run
2007-02-17 02:46:33 · answer #2 · answered by sml 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry you must be feeling really sad, but openly flirting with other people is not going to help any relationship.
Go and see him and apologise for what happened, you both need to sit down and have a long talk to see if this relationship is really worth saving or not. Arguing all the time isn't helping either of you.
Hope this helps
2007-02-17 02:46:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does not want to be with you anymore, I'm sorry, but your relationship was not a fit this time. For what ever reason, he has looked at you two together, and decided it's not worth fighting for. Harsh as that is, he has done you a favour, the relationship wasn't working, and he has ended it for you, so now you can concentrate on finding a relationship that WILL work. I know it is hard because you love him, but it is only going to feel bad for a tiny portion of your life, and the rest of it you probably won't even remember his surname!
2007-02-17 02:45:22 · answer #4 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you really loved you wouldnt be flirting with other guys. But if you still love then just call him or leave a message. Otherwise just move on it doesnt seem like you are in the i want to marry you kind of love. People in LOVE don't flirt with other guys.
2007-02-17 02:42:40 · answer #5 · answered by Maddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god I was in the same situation.You just got to call him up and tell him that your are so sorry and you still have feelings for him but if he doesn't feel the same way then tell him he doesn't have to like you again just make you feel better. And say you want to still stay and touch and you never know what wil happen in the future. God luck!
2007-02-17 02:57:24 · answer #6 · answered by The Lovely Shannon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it if he does not want to be with you then you must move on you can not make someone love you it will be best not to see if actually that will be the best thing to do time will heal your pain and you will meet someone else
2007-02-17 02:53:05 · answer #7 · answered by shortyb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on as hard as it may be time will heal you. Your mr right is still out there. good luck
2007-02-17 04:49:07 · answer #8 · answered by thedaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you flirt with another guy when you're out with your boyfriend??? Go home and move on.
2007-02-17 02:45:43 · answer #9 · answered by weiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Phone him and tell him you need to talk, you was just talking to this other guy not doing anyhing wrong.
2007-02-17 03:00:43 · answer #10 · answered by julie p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋