This person is a family memmber so I can't easily escape him. And he always has a comment about my weight even though I have dropped some. I don't know how to deal with him.
2007-02-17 02:37:29 · 6 answers · asked by rottenkid4560 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hes very childish,cruel and verbaly abusive ,nothing but a bully ,but i would totally ignore him or anyone else because they will soon get fed up when,they are not getting a response.You might also try thinking to yourself, that you feel sorry for him,them,because 9 times out of 10 they bully because they actually have a problem with theirselves,they do it to make you feel bad, because the outcome for them is that they will feel better than you.dont let them ,you show them your better ,because you dont let it affect you.they will then move on to some other poor soul, CHIN UP YOUR GREAT AS YOU ARE.
2007-02-17 02:53:52 · answer #1 · answered by patsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, if you are an adult take matters in to your own hands and express to this rude, ignorant person that his comments are hurtful and you don't like it and that if they cannot say anything nice to keep their mouth shut. If you are a Minor, talk to your parents and let them know how you feel about this persons comments and if they are any kind of parent to you they will forbid this rude butthead person to taunt and tease you. It is wrong......wrong and I absolutely hate people who are like that. Do they think they are some PRIZE? They aren't.... and you might say to them "I can drop 20 lbs, but you'd have to cut off your head to get rid of the ugliness"! Smile, you are beautiful regardless of your weight!
2007-02-17 03:20:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For your own sanity and peace of mind, next time he makes a distastefull comment about your weight, you need to politely point out to him : "....excuse me? Do you have to practice to be so ignorant and rude, or does it just come naturally ??? !!!"
That should quieten him down a bit !!!
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PEACE
2007-02-17 02:47:59 · answer #3 · answered by Minx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My best friend is always having this kid in our class calling her fat. You can deal with it by just sayin, STOP IT!! I HAD ENOUGH!
2007-02-17 02:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by xEmoxKidx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exercise and shape up. it may be a constructive criticism for all we know. And he will stop permanently.
2007-02-17 02:50:56 · answer #5 · answered by eyentmd8 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that you don't appreciate his remarks and shut up.
2007-02-17 02:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋