survive without having sex for one year,when I asked him, he told me because of our rows and fights??!! but I doubt it, sometimes making love can heal it all up between couples, is he cheating on me? can that be normal and I'm a little suspicious?
2007-02-17 02:26:11 · 14 answers · asked by rasha k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
either he is cheating or something. i would suggest counselling to try fixing it if you want to keep him.. if not i would get a divorce now because if after only two yrs he stopped cause of fights the rest of the marriage isnt going to be any better..and no thats not normal
2007-02-17 02:37:32 · answer #1 · answered by bobby_2_24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of questions here. How long have you know your husband? Did you have sex before marriage? Do you have any children? What do you mean by rows? Have you changed? Do you two talk? Do either of you travel? Work out of town! Just the way you ask can a man survive without sex. The answer is simply yes. People in prison don't have a choice. Priest choose not to have sex. I would say your marriage is over and you need to be looking for the best way out.
2007-02-17 03:02:00 · answer #2 · answered by bigh5586 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is NOTHING normal about a husband not having sex with his wife for over a year! I would be VERY concerned if I were you, and I would investigate this a lot deeper. I can't say that he is or isn't cheating without more info, but unless you put on 200lbs in the last year or unless there are other major physical limitations (accident, depression, etc etc) then something is WAY off!
2007-02-17 02:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st- sorry to hear about this
2nd-Start off by communicating. Talk to him in a non threaten tone and environment. Set a relaxing mood and be honest with your feelings
3rd- If you do not get any results, then offer counseling.
That is the nice way to start off.
IF that don't work, now it is time to step into action.
Something isn't right, so it is time to snoop and question everything in site.
Notice his actions:
Do he smell like soap when he comes home
Do he head straight to the bathroom when he come home
What types of hours is he keeping
Do you have access to bank statements, credit cards receipts?
Check pockets carefully
Whatever you do, don't let him play you for a fool
Good luck
2007-02-17 02:47:43 · answer #4 · answered by Michael b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he addicted to porn? Or does he purely watch porn? there's a difference. An habit would advise that it grow to be inteferring with you existence. i do no longer advise you 2 arguing, I advise has he misplaced his activity through fact he grow to be observing porn at artwork? Or his he spending your reductions in porn. Is it affecting your love existence? If that stuff isn't occurring than he's not addicted to porn. If he purely likes to observe it than that's ok. you need to understand that adult men are seen creatures. you are able to desire to be an 10.0 yet that dosen't advise he dosen't decide to look at an 8 now and lower back. If that's the cased he lied to you through fact he did no longer decide to argue. he's a guy so shop that for the duration of strategies. Now if porn is affecting your intercourse existence, money, or his activity than he needs to work out a intercourse therapist and you need to provide him an ultimatum. stable success
2016-10-15 12:32:30 · answer #5 · answered by fugere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not normal for a man to go without for that long, he may well get it on the side.
2007-02-17 03:20:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ANYONE canlive without sex but most likely this man has a mistress and I can not believe that you have put up with this BULLL this long. Open your eyes and your ears. If your relationship is this bad, why are you still in it!!
2007-02-17 02:41:07 · answer #7 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this is not normal. And has gone much too long. You need to resolve your fights. He may have gone to someone else to release his desires. Seek professional advice.
2007-02-17 03:05:57 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not normal talk to him and try to get couples counseling.Good luck
2007-02-17 02:35:48 · answer #9 · answered by C E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like hes cheating hes getting pussy somewhere since its been a year with his own wife
2007-02-21 08:53:29 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋