Hi guys, I am having an affair with an egyptian girl. I love her so much. But her parents and family doesnt like me coz I am from another nationality. I want to make them realize about this issue. All your important suggestions are warmly welcome.
2007-02-17 01:48:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need a lot of love and a lot of committment to make a mixed marriage work.
but if you love each other enough, it will work out. Your joy in bringing children into the world who have the best qualities of both races will be unsurpassed.
Be firm about staying together; I married a Chinese man some 15 years ago; my parents were horrified; his mother refused to acknowledge me in any way.
We were only together three years; his family succeeded in breaking us up, by bringing him back to Hong Kong on the pretext that his mother was seriously ill..
Six weeks later, they had worked their poison on him; he rang me and told me he wasn't coming back.
the difficulty was we had an 8 month old baby.
Stand for what you believe in; if it's to be, it will be. But you can give it a helping hand by being true to each other and yourselves.
2007-02-17 04:39:52 · answer #1 · answered by marie m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure when you marry her that you're not expected to have the whole family living with you. I'm not joking.
All you can do is treat her right, they're obviously worried about the cultural differences, but as you both don't care about it you should be ok. Her family will see how happy she is and melt in the end. Stay strong.
I wish you all the best for the future
2007-02-17 03:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's what you both want, nothing else should matter. Love knows no bounds or limits if its meant to be, it will be. I am into a relationship that has a part of her family put a contract on me and I don't really care, I will be with her anyway. You only live once. Happiness and joy should always be obtained in life if even only for a short time, like till they find me.
2007-02-17 03:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by neil_kllhr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm presuming you mean "marriage" instead of "marring". So of course I think there should be absolutely no reason why it would matter. I mean if two people love each other then who cares? But I understand that often older people feel strongly about marriage between nations. I would suggest that you try your hardest to show that you really have respect for their nationality. Maybe that way they will learn that she won't be giving up her culture if she marries you.
2007-02-17 01:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im(white) Italian and French, and I like a Hatian (black) girl. If you love, or even like another nationality, go for it. Go behind her parents back at first to see how it works out, so you will know if you should talk to her parents and family. If it lasts, tell everyone and hope for the best.
2007-02-17 01:54:13 · answer #5 · answered by Tom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with this at all. i think if two people really like each other then there parents yes should give advice but let there children take control of there own life. at the end of the day you both could betogher for the rest of your lives and on the other hand who knows it might be a mistake. i hope it turns out well for the both of you..
2007-02-17 02:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by lady z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you're taking it from this view then this is unfair no longer to allow an Egyptian who married from yet another nationality to be a candidate for authorities,yet from yet another view it really is taken into consideration that the Egyptian President must have in uncomplicated words one nationality to be particular that he has no loyalty to a unique us of a besides to warding off the mistrust that could want to take position between the human beings and the President( da lama kan hosney Mubarak mawgod konna ben2ol 3ale 3amel el Amrican men 3'er ma yekon m3a gensia)......the second one aspect, i trust that in case you'd be the President of the largest us of a interior the middle-east then a minimum of 30 thousand human beings might want to understand you out of the 80 5 tens of millions. :)
2016-10-17 07:39:18 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm all for it. My hubby is Mexican and I'm not. We have 2 beautiful Mexican/American girls. I think, that racist people are racist no matter what you say. They are ignorant and tend not to listen to what anyone else has to say about the subject. Luckily, I have not encountered this too much. People say things about Mexican's in my presence and I tend to get pissy about it, more so then my hubby, then they learn to keep their mouths shut. lol But in your situation, I would say, just keep showing them how good of a person you are, and if you are meant to be w/ their daughter, stick w/ her and make it work somehow. Good luck!! :-}
2007-02-17 04:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
luk all i wll say is- my dad is indian and my mom is an iranian.........and trust me its all cool..alright..we r all created from the same creator and no one has the right to make u feel inferior without or with ur consent...........im half and half and i am pleased to say that i have got the best from both .........but remember whatever u do-her parents know her and if u really love and care that much be happy for the decisions her parents take for her coz otherwise by being unhappy and sulking u wll only worsen things for her......and trust me if it works out well and gud but if not.........there r many other fish in the sea..............njoy............
2007-02-17 04:10:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am English, my husband is Turkish. her parents will be worried about the culture difference which can cause problems. I'm sure that if you study her culture and show her parents that you really care about her then they will give you a chance. it make take a while though but if you really love her hopefully they will see that. good luck to you both. x
2007-02-17 01:55:38 · answer #10 · answered by val f1 nutter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋