How do you know if you want to bewith the person forever, or if it's just familiar and "for now"?
2007-02-17 01:18:00 · 6 answers · asked by torn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you can't imagine your life without them in it. When you want them to be the first thing you see in the morning and the last thing you see every night. When their pain becomes yours and vice versa. When making them happy is more important than making you happy. If you still feel these things after about a year and a half you have the real deal.
2007-02-17 01:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by mjm52 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your heart and brain have to agree that it's a good idea. You also look to some people you trust and see if your relationship actually makes sense, it's always good to get at least 2 outside opinions and make sure they are being honest with you. Imagine yourself and this person when you're in your 70's. Can you see it? Do you compliment each other? If so, then you found your match. Congrats.
2007-02-17 09:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you will never really no if its the right thing to do....Do you love this person? Do you only think about this person? Does everyone like this person? Is this person able to hold a job so you can live? I mean there are lots of questions to ask yourself befor you say yes I want to spend the rest of my life with you....Can you talk to this person about anything? Are you and this person like best friends? all of the above should be asked by you and more...good luck to you
2007-02-17 09:35:15 · answer #3 · answered by futurecreationsusa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Imagine them not in your life. Could you walk away right now and never feel like you are missing something?
2007-02-17 09:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound of your heart and mind and feelings telling u that this is the right person or not.... just listen to it and u will find the answer.
2007-02-17 09:36:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
b/c you just know deep inside . Its very forgiveing
2007-02-17 09:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by remi m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋