I have been with my boyfriend for 14 months now and things just keep getting worse. I really love him but we both have hurt eachother to much. I admit I have done wrong but he has done the same. I just don't know what to do.
2007-02-17 01:06:33 · 13 answers · asked by tinkerbell07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you "both hurt eachother so much" then it probably isn't the healthiest of relationships you need to make a decision. work it out and stick to your plan of action or leave. you deserve to be happy.
2007-02-17 01:10:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriends and girlfriends should be happy together. If they are not, they shouldn't be together. If you feel trapped in a relationship now, what future does it really have? It's hard, but it's best to end things now if, in your heart of hearts, you know that it won't last. It'll only get more difficult the longer you leave it. Sit down and talk with your boyfriend and explain how you feel, it may be that you can remain friends, but you need to move on. I know it's painful, but don't mistake sympathy for love, don't stick with someone because you feel sorry for them, that only leads to resentment. You know this is going in one direction, don't let it continue otherwise you won't even have each other as friends. Hope this helps.
2007-02-17 01:53:59 · answer #2 · answered by fallen angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up -this relationship is not good if you both are hurtful. What is the point of staying together? You are wasting time on someone that is no good for you. It is time to move on.
2007-02-17 01:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your both really miserable.Move on and try to find hapiness.Remember theres no future in the past.
2007-02-20 23:44:10 · answer #4 · answered by Peaches 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the two of you should move on the wrongs you have done to each other will always come between you can forgive but you can never forget
2007-02-20 09:19:21 · answer #5 · answered by julz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you've both been hurting each other then you don't have much of a relationship. I would walk away.
2007-02-18 00:49:26 · answer #6 · answered by chelsea19622000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should be talk to him about your feeling,what you think.
Of course,waiting for the favourable moment when you both are cool down.If you believe in Jesus ,pray!
Next time you should tell us your age ,we can give u better answer.
2007-02-21 00:01:00 · answer #7 · answered by Simon's Skinny Cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really loved him why did you hurt him? You need to move on and so does he.Sorry.
2007-02-17 01:11:36 · answer #8 · answered by bette69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm well u both either move on and forgive each other or walk away
2007-02-17 04:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by sami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a break from each other sort out what you two want in life
2007-02-20 16:23:09 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋