her mom found out and so they got divorced. A lot of times, she hurts my feelings when she talks about how my family is so great and her's is so crappy. I'm thankful that i do have a good family but she makes me feel really bad. Once she even called me anorexic (sp) just because I'm skinny and she is kinda chubby! How do I tell her how I feel??
2007-02-17 00:24:24 · 5 answers · asked by Emma P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her how much she means to you and then tell her that she makes you feel bad when she talks like that , because you love her and care about her and you want to be there for her.
2007-02-17 00:33:13 · answer #1 · answered by sandra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow I can't believe that she hurts your feeling and it not your fault and she need to deal with her plm... and again it true you are so lucky to have a good family... and I didn't have a good family.. my mom and dad oh gosh so long story.. but i grow up really bad time... so what I can do to fix my sobbing story??? I change the way I want my family to be love, caring, sharing, other things... thatI never have before. BUt found my woman now my wife and kids sure teach me alot.....about love, funny, sad, cry, all that...
That person called you anorexic wow, she is dumb a** and she has no right to tell you ....
You know she will be who she is and she not going to change for who she is.... let it go and move on... Reason why? no matter how any time you tell her about how you feel... she will never care to listen... someday she would get hit in the head wake up and smell the coffee and knowing what she did to you she will come t you and tell you sorry or nothing will hit her head... you don't have to talk anything bad about her just postive why??? more people will look at you wow you really talk postive about her but other really neg about herself and talking bad about her??? then they will not want to hang out with her and mostly people wll hang out with you smiling....
2007-02-17 08:42:14 · answer #2 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be you should encourage her to help her family become better. There are things she can do, I'm sure.
I don't know if you should tell her how you feel. I don't know your friend. Some people stop hurting you when you talk to them, but some get even worse about it. Talk to your mom about this situation, she might understand you better and she'll help you feel better.
2007-02-17 08:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by olessa_lds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you friend only tells you all that she does because you continue to take it. its your response that teaches people how to treat and talk to you. show her compassion but define her limits.that could be by expression or straight away talk it out with her. tell her you love yourself and that she should love herself.
if she over does it then break contact with this kinda girl. friends respect each other.thats the basis of a healthy friendship. tell her ''i respect everything you have bin through and i feel for you but that does not mean you direct your envy towards me.''
- this should help.
2007-02-17 08:35:51 · answer #4 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that such conversations make u feel bad , if she is ur good frnd then she will understand
2007-02-17 08:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by guru ji 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋