2007-02-17 00:23:00 · 13 answers · asked by tiffany171720052005 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
They are workout buddies and probably have formed a bond with each other. I'm sure it's nothing more than a brotherhood kinda thing going.
2007-02-17 01:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by xander 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your boyfriend are meant to be together then you need to ask him this question instead of showing you distrust by wanting strangers who can not make any judgement about him unless of course they were to ask him too. If you know nothing about his friend perhaps you can offerto take your boyfriend and his friend out. Tell your bofriend you love him without conditions and that means you want to know his friends. It may be that he is afraid his friend is not some one he thinks you would approve of. If he says no then you know that you need to look elsewhere for a boyfriend because you can't trust him which is actually the deal breaker of all relationships in the end. If he says OK don't use the time you 3 go out to nosy into their relationship. Try to ask questions about interests you know your boyfriend already has so you know what interests they have together-Don't assume they are gay (and if they are you can turn it friendly and come out as the coolest chick on earth) Good luck-Mellie
2007-02-17 08:36:46 · answer #2 · answered by Melinda M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a little weird thinking he is gay. Men have best friends like women do. Your bf still likes to have some freedom from girl (you) and do men things. Even when you get married, your husband still have his own buddies to hang out with. You are fine as long as he still loves you.
2007-02-17 09:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by Henry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men can be just as close friends as women. Why does that make people question their sexuality? He is YOUR boyfriend and you're questioning which side of the street he walks on? You can't have much of a relationship and the fact that you're asking us instead of talking to him screams volumns of how insecure your partnership is. Somebody needs to rethink who they are seeing.
2007-02-17 08:47:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Male friends can have strong bonds too. Girls don't have a monopoly on tight friendships. If he has a fondness for Judy Garland then I'd start to worry. If he doesn't its probably fine.
2007-02-17 09:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by tara_365 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try asking them at the same time like go to the gym and see if they are doing anything that may seem like they are gay and then if you can't go to talk to them in the gym and if you can't just wait for them outside and confront them then, but just lay in waiting, let's say, and then if they do do something surprise them by suddenly appearing and confronting them.
2007-02-17 10:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the words of Ray Davies and the Kinks...."Paranoia will destroy ya"
If you really want to know, ask, but be prepared to accept the fallout that may come with asking the question.
2007-02-17 08:52:28 · answer #7 · answered by MaryCheneysAccessory 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you know nothing about him?
Have you ever seen "him"? (If you have, then you at least know more than nothing.)
One approach would be to tell your boyfriend that you'd like to get to know his friends, and try to organize something that the three of you can do together.
2007-02-17 09:01:50 · answer #8 · answered by DavidGC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since when does texting another guy make him gay?...anyway, maybe he is, who knows. but then again they could just be really good friends..
2007-02-17 08:29:34 · answer #9 · answered by BlondBoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask your boyfriend to set up a double date with you guys and his "friend" ...... getting to know you....
2007-02-17 08:41:49 · answer #10 · answered by PNSGUY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋