you could follow him when you feel the times right ,but for god sake dont let him see you .Otherwise sit and talk it through with him .You know him and his reactions ,so take them into consideration and go with your instincts sweetheart,you know what they say about womans intuition,just belive in your own.And
GOOD LUCK.
2007-02-17 00:32:17
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answered by patsy 3
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Go with your gut instincts. If you are a reasonable woman (and not just a jealous paranoid witch) you know your husband better than he knows himself. Has his habits changed lately? Does he come home a little later than usual? Does he go straight to the shower when he comes home lately? Has he been going out to see a "friend" from work? Call him up or visit him unexpectedly for lunch. But if he is seeing someone else decide before hand whether or not you really want to catch him in the act. You may just want to confront him at home. I hope he's not. Good Luck.
2007-02-17 00:36:50
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answered by blastabuelliac 4
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check credit bills, odd withdrawals... take a few days to stake out the office... follow her...not him... hire a P.I. all kinds of sneaky sh*t can be done...
The real question is why don't you trust your husband? is it insecurity? are you a stay at home mom wrapped up in soaps? so bored you've decided that there just HAS to be something up because those folks on the soaps lead "real" lives and they are always F*cking around with someone...
In any case No trust...no love... no love...no marriage... go straight to divorce court do not pass go DO pay a lawyer huge amounts of money...
OR... talk to the man you "love" be open be honest... tell him what you suspect... after that... It's up to you
2007-02-17 01:09:13
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answered by alex b 3
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If you have asked him and he has denied it then hire someone to follow him. Also, check his cell phone activity and credit card charges and debits. If you don't find anything then maybe he isn't and you are being paranoid.
2007-02-17 01:19:00
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answered by mom of twins 6
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Hire a detective to make sure even if you have to have a yard sale and sell all his precious things.
2007-02-17 00:42:25
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answered by Anonymous
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Sniff him when you comes home from work.
2007-02-17 00:46:23
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answered by cuddycab 2
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if he has a cell phone - check the itemized bill. that gets the cheaters every time !!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-17 01:08:31
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answered by m210max 2
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SPYWARE INSTALLED on your computer!
2007-02-17 01:07:05
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answered by Anonymous
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ask her husband. if its so. hook up with him.
2007-02-17 00:27:24
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answered by DASH 5
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