If your sole mate dies?

Question

When the one meant for you dies what happens? are you doomed to be alone the rest of your life? or does the world send you a new solemate?

Answer 1

I think a lot depends on how you react to the person's death. My mother met her soul mate when she was 22 and he died when she was 32. She decided that there was noone who could compare and so she decided to thwart any advances made towards her by anyone else. She went to live with her parents and took care of them until they died. I became her surrogate husband being her only child and she at one time believed that I should do the things he did (buy her things, pick her up when she was fallen down, etc). I believe that one can find someone else who would be a wonderful partner but one shouldn't just decide to never enjoy life or allow the love of another person into their lives. After losing a soul mate it is hard, as I witnessed with my mother, but I believe that a soul mate isn't the end of relationships ever. There was a reason for the person to be on earth and there is a reason for those who loved the person to enjoy their memories, grieve, and move on in life carrying the wonderful memories but making new ones as well.

I hope this answers your question.

Answer 2

I don't believe there is one person meant for you. I think there can be more than one person out there that will be the love of your life. It's just a matter of finding those certain people that fit the bill. Some people lose their spouses whom they would call soul mates, but then find someone else to marry after and love them just as much. I say it's a state of mind, if you really don't want to find someone new to love you won't.

Answer 3

People only go to new beginnings and soulmates dont just end just because they went to the next realm. Not only that but you can speak to them and they do hear you. Also you dont have to be lonely, hearts have room for many loves. Expand the capacity of your heart let more people in. The more love you give freely the happier you will be. Also allow others to give you love back, do not cut yourself off from recieving as well as giving.

Bless

Answer 4

In my opinion, I think a person can truly love many people but, there is only one true soulmate for that person.
So, if your soulmate dies then you may go on to love another person but, they will not be your soulmate.
Life does not end at death. It is a neverending cycle. You will be rejoined with your soulmate in the afterlife. And then again, in your next life, so on and so forth.

Answer 5

We have many soul mates in this lifetime, however the world doesn't just automatically send them to us, we have to be actively engaged in the search. That doesn't mean go out and frantically try and find another soul mate because you can't force it to happen. It will happen in its own time, rather have patience, go out and experience life and be open to new encounters.

Answer 6

even if soul mates really exist, it doesn't mean you have to be alone without them. there might be something lacking in a relationship, but there are plenty of people out there to keep company with. i don't believe in the concept simply because that person could be anywhere in the world, or even in time. how horribly cruel is that? bottom line- whatever concept of creation you have seems to point towards happiness.

Answer 7

Personally i dont believe in soul mates, i believe that sometimes we meet someone that is just to perfect to be true, and most of the time there is more then one. Most people dont find one of these people cause of personal issues and not looking in the right places. But if you did believe in that then i would say, no if we were ment for one person only then that would be it.

Answer 8

I find it very hard to believe that out of everyone in this world, there is only one person out there for us. I think you can love many people, and they teach you how to love in different ways. However, to answer your question, I would think that if you have your soulmate and then he died, then yeah you would get a new one.

Answer 9

Yes

Answer 10

Sometimes the world will send you a new soulamte, but it can tough because once you die, too, you will have betrayed your first soulmate. It is very tricky, eh??