I was in a relationship where ever increasingly was aware of doubt as to certain things being said about my partners activity. As in where going and what doing etc....a long distance relationship. He chats to many many women in the line of work he is involved. The other day outof the blue I had a vicious voice mail stating that I had tampered with his mail and sent texts to people telling of his business. I received such a mail in my inbox. My reaction when hearing the assumption made that it was me was to throw my mobile phone into a pond and him with it. Now my question is.....since have had no communication......tho he has tried I have blanked. Does he believe it was me by this response or does he have doubt about the words said in anger to me? I have no intention of speaking to him....but can't help wondering what might be in his head....regret......more anger.......doubt.......any thoughts?
2007-02-16 22:40:38 · 10 answers · asked by pipsqueek 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe he feels ashamed and is sorry for what he did. Sometimes when you are angry you do silly things and regret them after. I wouldn't worry too much though if you no longer want to be with him. Let him thinks what he likes.
2007-02-16 23:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you did or did not do it - and by the feeling of indignation I'm sensing in your question, you probably didn't - I think that the best thing to do would be to find a way to meet up with this person, and discuss all the doubts you might have about one another - openly.
You were in a relationship once.
I believe you owe yourself, and perhaps to him, a proper chance to talk it over... maybe it will lead to a closure... or maybe it would lead to a more open, honest relationship.
You won't know unless you give it a go.
Good luck.
2007-02-16 23:22:41 · answer #2 · answered by Klara B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him think what he wants to!
If you were made to feel this way then he
don,t deserve you.
So quit worrying about what he's thinking.
Move on. Usually when words are said in
anger - they mean them!!
2007-02-16 23:08:01 · answer #3 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care what he thinks if you no longer want anything to do with him. He sounds like a loser - move on
2007-02-16 22:47:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it any more - you don't want to speak to him so don't - you'll stop wondering soon enough - get on with living your own life
2007-02-17 02:42:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stop worrying what he thinks of you and leave him in the past.
2007-02-16 23:32:43 · answer #6 · answered by chickadee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably has all three in his head....keep moving on, not worth the drama.
2007-02-16 23:18:54 · answer #7 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it be, overall he has no sense.
2007-02-16 23:30:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't care what he thinks any more.
2007-02-16 22:54:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
regret
2007-02-16 23:03:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋