The guy I work with is cute and very good to me, but as a life time commetment many things are gonna work out, the guy I met is great and I am sure he would make a great husband.
But I dont want to lose the first guy. because before anything. he is such a great friend and man.
2007-02-16 22:24:39 · 7 answers · asked by Life 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like I.P.S.
1) It's always a bad idea to date in the workplace as a general rule because break-ups can tend to make personal and work life miserable.
2) Cut the work guy loose and be as nice as possible. Tell him you want to date someone else. If he decides to kick you to the curb for it, it won't be because you're a liar.
3) If the grass looks greener on the other side, it's usually because there is more shxt.
4) If it doesn't work out with the other guy, and your work buddy is a moron...he may sit in the wings and wait for you.
Life...it can be a real bxtch sometimes. Go for what you think you want, but there are always going to be repercussions...good or bad for everything you do in life.
Good luck and I hope you find what you are looking for.
2007-02-16 22:39:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Starters never date someone you work with! Because they will always be there looking at you, specially if it's a bad brake up. What is wrong with the first guy, sounds like he'd be a good husband, if you give him half a chance? Just take him out to a nice quiet dinner somewhere, and tell him you really like him and want to be friends, but you've found someone else. Don't just sneak around the corner with the other guy until you brake it off with the first, bad! If he's a real man, he'll just bow out. You might try making it feel like its for his good.
2007-02-16 22:42:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, choose wether you want a friend or a husband... you can't just dump the first guy for the other and expect him to remain you life long friend... are you in an age that are ready to get married and settle down/ then don't waste your time and go for the guy that is right for marriage... make him your life long friend and the first guy find his happiness with someone else.
2007-02-16 22:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by Shelley S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now which you have finished making use of the undesirable guy you % to offload him. you're probable one in each and every of those women people who ask why adult males take care of ladies persons so undesirable. the subsequent time you ask the question in simple terms look in the mirror for the respond.
2016-12-17 12:06:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't have both. You just gotta break up the good old fashioned way. Then say you still wanna be friends...either way, the sooner the better.
2007-02-16 22:29:10 · answer #5 · answered by Captain Jack 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go easy on him tell him what you just posted up here, if he is that good of a man he will understand
2007-02-16 22:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to make up your mind. Its not fair to the work buddy.
2007-02-16 22:29:19 · answer #7 · answered by jlily680 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋