this is the second time that it happend. i love her but i cant help myself falling in love or having a crush to a guy. this time its with my supervisor. im texting him(he doesnt know about it). im so obvious whenever he's around. I'll blush and im so quiet and thats not me. my friends told me that he is somehow flirting also cause he will always talks to me, ask me if im ok. he's somehow friendly with the others but it with me he's kinda different (or im just imagining things) so there and he's taken also. with my girlfriend, i love her and i know that in the end of the day it will still be her, but why i still have this feeling. what should i do? ignore everything? help me! coz i cant stop flirting with my sup. and i dont wants to hurt my girlfriend.
2007-02-16 22:10:01 · 5 answers · asked by <fish_me> 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you know what.. here is my opinion..if you are falling in love with a guy for the second time or even if it happens with another girl..then you are not in true love with the girl you are with. true love means that you think of no others in that way let alone twice and if ur relationship is worth cheating then it isnt worth having in the long run. you say you dont want to hurt her but these selfish actions..stringing her along with her thinking you are fully devoted to her and then you falling in love with someone else just is not right. you need to tell your girl what is up and regardless if you want to hurt her or not..you more than likely will.
2007-02-16 23:01:26 · answer #1 · answered by lucy_2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, having kids is natural instinct, you know, getting sperm from dudes. That is the way we make more.
Most likely some of that "sperm instinct" is coming out. That is pretty natural for everyone, within reason.
After you are done with your current relationship, you may want to play on both sides of the fence and see how things go.
The worst thing you can do is to label yourself one thing!
2007-02-17 12:13:02 · answer #2 · answered by Santa Barbara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are more bisexual (attracted to both men and women) than only attracted to women.
2007-02-17 06:19:13 · answer #3 · answered by Lief Tanner 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your probably bi. But were experiencing more lesbian feelings before. Don't fight how you feel. :]
2007-02-17 06:19:41 · answer #4 · answered by Baby Doll. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be with a girl
2007-02-17 07:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by I am an Indian 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋