my husband makes fun of my southern ways and it makes me feel really bad sometimes. that is until i remember how much i love being who i am. what advice could you northern guys give me on how to handle this situation?
2007-02-16 22:02:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's your husband. Talk to him and tell him it bothers you. Don't tell him while you're upset, because that's a good way to get into an arguement. Tell him now.
My husband makes fun of my redneck family all the time. That's ok with me. He loves me & my southernness.
2007-02-16 23:45:27 · answer #1 · answered by Julia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a Northerner but I'm a Southerner who thinks my wife is extremely sexy whenever she is pissed off. I pick on her too because she is very country at times. But that does not mean I love her any less. If he has problem with your ways he honestly should have known that before he married you. Sometimes look at the other side of it. He might just be doing it just as flirting. I know I do. And try not to take it personal unless he is degrading you and verbally abusing you then maybe you should let him know your feelings and ask him to respect them. If not I would seek counseling and PRAY for guidance.
2007-02-17 06:12:36 · answer #2 · answered by Gary B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have an incentive husband talk to him tell how you feel, if that doesn't work. Your choice except it or leave it.
Florida guy southern-bell do it well. Be yourself he new you before you married him.
2007-02-17 09:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he's disrespecting you because he is.
Unless, of course, your "Southern ways" are code for bad behavior on your part. If the latter is the case, then stop the bad behavior.
2007-02-17 09:03:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex-wife use to make fun of me, so I would quit talking to her. she is from MN, and I being from georgia, thought they talk with more of an accent and worse grammar then anybody I know back home.
2007-02-17 06:09:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he keeps making fun of you, tell him there is a man who is willing to bow to your southern ways and worship every part of you if he doesnt pay you respect. That should shake up his foundation, and if it doesnt, send him my picture.
2007-02-17 06:24:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the wars been over for years and the south won.
2007-02-17 09:10:34 · answer #7 · answered by seahorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love southern women!!Sick with who you are and ignore the child-like behavior.If he dumps ya,call me!
2007-02-17 06:53:44 · answer #8 · answered by packerman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No idea why it would be deleted, weird. Nothing you can do, if he doesn't acclimate to the culture, you are stuck.
2007-02-17 06:14:24 · answer #9 · answered by Orion Quest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a jerk !
2007-02-17 06:08:55 · answer #10 · answered by gillemhor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋