As m lackin in Confidence........so cud u sugest me hw shud i bring it ?????

Question

i guess my problem is i neeed alot motivation......regularly......it realy works in my results........
but evry tym i can't get motivation.........so i need som suggestions hw 2 get rid of dis prob........

Answer 1

u talk 2 urself first loudly in a close room in front of the mirror.. i know it may be sounds weird to u and u will find it uncomfortable first but thats the first step trust me...if u will be able to talk to ur self by looking into ur own eyes, u will surely get a lot of confidence to face other person's eyes too. try it once or twice in a day for 10-15 mints for one week then let me know the change.. don't worry u will definitely be confident one day.. i m there to motivate u all the time ok? just have faith in God, courage in urself and trust upon me... u will be confident very soon .... all the best

Answer 2

First of all you need to select a very confident friend of yourself,,,to whom you could able to share all your emotions. So that he/she can motivate,suggest & counsel you from time to time whenever required. So that you can well recover very fast.It needs some other ones interferance who should very much positive & strong in mind.Besides that you should be positve in your attitude & try to watch the thoughts comming to you,examin them & find a solution for each of them.Don't loose your patience,try had to do your duty in perfact manner
I hope you will be absolutely confident by the way.

Answer 3

just think we all need motivation you are not alone plan the things you want to achieve perhaps keep a diary and review your progress ---or lack of Reward yourself for even a little improvement----try to put more exercise into your life-plan even if it's only a walk around the block but do it regularly study books on being polite and following etiquette rules by following rules one forgets about such problems and people appreciate kindly acts which tends to make us feel more confident---so go to it and mostly just be happy

Answer 4

You lack confidence because you think so. Start believing in yourself. Auto motivate yourself. Start reading good books. Make friends and interact with them positively and do not search for agony aunts. You have to make a beginning and see to it that you keep up the momentum. Keep those friends who are positive and keep distance with those who think negatively. Start today and the next moment you would be a confident man.

Answer 5

1) You yourself has to know that on which area you are facing this problem.
2) By doing Dhynam and other physcial exercises like PRANAYAM and others you can control your body effectively.
3) Why you are depending on others motivation? Try to do the self motivating.

Answer 6

Self-confidence is extremely important in almost every aspect of our lives, yet so many people struggle to find it. Sadly, this can be a vicious circle: People who lack self-confidence can find it difficult to become successful. Doing what you believe to be right, even if others mock or criticize you for it.Being willing to take risks and go the extra mile to achieve better things.Admitting your mistakes and vowing to learn from them.Waiting for others to congratulate you on your accomplishments.Accepting compliments graciously. “Thanks, I really worked hard on that prospectus. I’m pleased you recognize my efforts.”Self-confident people are generally more positive – they believe in themselves and their abilities, and they also believe in the wonders of living life to the full.
make sure you don’t start enjoying cleverness for its own sake…

Answer 7

well you are listening to your negative messages and fedding into them. i know i have the exact same problem and i get depressed and suicidcal. its bad, but place yourself around positive people that arent too overbearing and very understanding and compassionate yet motivating and want to give advice. have something to work for or make a project. set a goal. start small and work your way up. theres no magic formula and its not one of those thigns soem peopel are blessed with and otehrs aren't. you have to keep working on it just by being happy, being genuine and postive and being yourself you will create confidence that you arent even aware of. the mroe you TRY to build confidence, the less you get because you get discouraged. Don't get down or discourgaed when things go wrong or you dont get what you weer looking for or didnt reach your goal, etc. Have faith in yourself, even that little bit of faith can help. if you are spiritual talk to God and hand over your problems to him tell him to guide you and BE your strength. Tell him all your worries and fears and problems and seek out his love and support and comfort. Find people you can confide in and trust, even if thats just one person, or a pet, or an imaginary person. Think about what you love to do and makes you happy. Find something every day to smile about to be happy about soemthing that makes you laugh. Find a way to reach out in the world and get out there and start exploring different avenues of interest like take up a new class. Find something at least one thing you are pasisonate about or that you like or are interested in even if tis somethign so small like a movie you really like or a stone you found on the ground. Go from there. The mroe you expand yourself and create new thigns for yourself, the mroe confidence you will have. Personally I find affirmations to be discouraging because iit is jsut words and I still feel the same way. But if it works for you awesome! You can alwys come to me if you have any problems need any advice or tips or just someone to talk to or listen to you someone to vent to. Just email me whenever you want to. Aso, taking risks builds confidence, anything that involves using your confidence skills such as asking someone out, going out there and ipcking up some hot girls, going to a big event, standing up to a boss or someone you normally wouldnt or you've been afraid to. I know it is extremely hard to not fall into this pain and hurt and depression and inconfidence and low esteem. But just go through it. Don't push it down or hide from it or be fake. Let yourself feel however you are feeling in that moment no matter how extreme it is. Because the only way out of somrthing is to go through it. Really live in the moment. I am sure you have awesome qualities in yourself you are not seeing or giving yourself credit for. Treat yourself. Give yourself some attention and spoil it like you wold spoil the love of your life or a goddess. Take time for yourself, Be selfish for a change. Don't worry about anyone else for a moment, take time out to only pay attention and be dedicated to you. You can do a lot of thigns to give to yourself, numerous infinite things. I just today made a fubnky hair accessory I put all these scarves and ribbons and beads in my hair and took some fun pictrues it really boosted my mood. I also cleaned my cuticles. LOL. Make it a point also to give yourself a present every day or do something every day to work towards building your confidence. It can be anything you choose! Do not let anyone even yourself or me presure you either because you need to go at a level that is comfortable for you. Be your own guide. Much love, Lauren xxxxx Good luck with your confidence and best wishes!!

Answer 8

Find and join any local Toastmasters International Club, it does work perfectly.

Answer 9

bypass to the sahajayoga centre close on your house of abode and start up up doing meditation in the way as taught there devoid of having entangled in gossiping with others in the centre(s). you're able to become inspired in only one to 3 months.

Answer 10

drink horlicks twice a day then u will be taller stronger and sharper