in my life i have three men? one is a married man he gives me almost everything and less time, i have a boyfriend that i love so much , i care so much about him and i will do anything for him,but i don't know if he loves me the way i do love him, and the last one is a nice person, gentle, he loves me too much , he shows me love, attention, care , understanding and try he best to make me happy but i don't love him, and he is begging me to love him and he know i have a boy friend but he still love me and he dose not know am going out with the married man.i try my best leaving the married man but he keep saying that am committed to him until he says it over it never over, am so confuse
2007-02-16 21:09:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Well I say walk away from all three for a while untill you can cleear your head and figure this out,But the one You need to walk away from alltogether is the marrried man for 3 reasrons 1 being HE IS MARRIED!!!!! 2 being you will always be second best and you should never ever settle for that!!!!And 3 he sounds very controlling and scary and honestly you are the one with the least to loose and you should be in controll of this situation. As for the other two men maybe time apart will help you decide,
2007-02-16 21:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by stegall_sherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well girl thats some trouble your getting into........ i really think you should end it with all three before you hurt anyone and yourself...... your in a sense leading one guy on and you should know it doesn't feel to good...plus you have to think of the wife.... does she really deserve that now you have to concentrate on yourself.... sooner or later your gone loose at least two maybe all so why not end it now... before the situation gets worse. Yes you might be lonely but if it's meant to be with one of these fellas it will happen on its own! Good Luck and i hope i helped somewhat!
Manda
2007-02-17 05:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by Mandie R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello j jane you sure do have a little bit of a situation for sure you would be very smart to find just one guy that will love you instead of being with the 3 of them especially if the one that is married especially if you are having sex with them all and you happen to get pregnant or catch any disease you would be in very serious trouble for sure gal they might just be using for what they can get and that isnt any good either
2007-02-17 05:22:04 · answer #3 · answered by haroldgardner62002006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt go out with three men if they see you and even though they know that is going to ruin the relationship just stop with all three and just find one man you have in common with and love then you will know he is the right person
2007-02-17 05:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by donaldblake2007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the last person who will take care of you. Do not break some one's marraige.
2007-02-17 05:15:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's bad situation choose one and be with him i think the last is the best
2007-02-17 06:25:26 · answer #6 · answered by marjan m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Submit your storyline to a soap-opera and make some $$$$$$
2007-02-17 05:13:43 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Tawnya♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enjoy with three as you are doing.
2007-02-17 05:16:33 · answer #8 · answered by gullkhange 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋