Like many ppl, I fell inlove wit a guy on da net, "Steve".U kno how ppl say sum online relatnshps r deep?Ours was 1 of dem..Longterm. first, I was s2pid enuf 2 believe pics he showed me.til I found out they were fake.Steve said he was sorry. I dint care cuz I was so inlove.We talked on da mic, all that stuff..then one day he just wanted 2 leave me. He said he cant do it nemore. He left me for bout 7 mths, I was soo depressed. Til I met this other guy.. I fell in love with him.. Then I see an email from Steve saying it was all a mistake.. that he wanted me back.. that he was a GIRL(trans) & didnt want me hurt if I ever found out.I WAS SHOCKED. He told me da person on da mic was his cousin. but I took that chance agen,cuz I didnt wana jus throw it all away..I tried SO hard. I tried 3 times.. it didnt feel da same. I told him I jus couldnt look past the girl thing. He's trying so hard..I feel bad.I do love him&care 4 him..but hes a girl(trans). Im very confused. I miss Steve...shud i try?
2007-02-16 21:02:54 · 12 answers · asked by anonymousss 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I know that i should move on but that's pretty much easier said than done.. cuz i'm trying and its not going so well. i get really freakin depressed. i hate this. he only left me cuz he said we didn't have a future in real life together.. cuz hes actually a girl(trans).. but i dunno. ugh. this sucks. yeah i saw his real pics. i heard his voice.. we talk on the phone every now and then.. although right now i told him i needed space.. and F*********K i just dont know what to do. i know he loves me. i believe everything he says to me now cuz i feel that hes being for reals now.. its just that hes a girl.. AHHH i WANT to look past it.. but i think it needs time, right? omg. i dont know..i know im not in love with the girl.. im in love with steve.. but, i just have to put it together that theyre the same person i guess.. f*****k!!!!!
2007-02-16 21:28:09 · update #1
Yeah.. i do wish i was gay. It would be easier for the both of us.. but I am a straight female. I wish I didnt care about gender... but i can't help it. i just need time to think straight.. gah.
2007-02-16 21:32:53 · update #2
Maybe I am IN DENIAL??? since i love him and know hes a girl..?? i mean.. i'm guessing its fixable..
2007-02-16 21:35:43 · update #3
i dont know if you should try again.. he's an asshhole for lying to you. he shoudlve just said he was an ftm. but if the only thing he was lying about was his birth gender, the ONLY thing, then... .... if you still love him, go for it. steve really is a guy by heart and brain, its just the body that isnt male... and maybe he may fix that in the future. i say go for it, dont lose love...
2007-02-16 21:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by louie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter WHAT orientation you are. Relationships built on lies have no foundation. Where do you think it could go from such a fundamental lie. Even if you could get past the gender issue. (some people fall in love with the person, not the gender) there are significant problems to start with.
2007-02-17 12:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by titanic3645 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you ask me gender should not be the issue here. who cares if the person is trans and you are straight, what matters here is that the person lied to you and hurt you! try to think and don't just follow your heart. sometimes it can be deceiving.
2007-02-16 21:14:42 · answer #3 · answered by <fish_me> 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You fell in love with an online persona, not necessarily a real person.
2007-02-17 17:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, quit trying to rationalize, you're gay.
2007-02-16 21:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by Orion Quest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo yo yo check it if u into boys booties then u isnt str8 yo
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2007-02-16 21:06:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1-800-Springer
2007-02-16 21:06:01 · answer #7 · answered by mohnfro 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
These things happen. But you are straight and you need to get over it asap.
I Cr 13;8a
2007-02-16 21:07:02 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He could still be lieing to you now. No don't trust him or her .
2007-02-16 21:12:13 · answer #9 · answered by roan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope you have been tricked.
2007-02-16 21:05:49 · answer #10 · answered by one10soldier 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋