I don't understand when guys (even Hot guys) said to me "I prefer inner beauty rather than looks"... OK then why neither one of them ever ask me out??
I'm not pretty but my friends think I'm a good friend, n would make a good girlfriend.
2007-02-16 20:16:38 · 8 answers · asked by duffy_dev 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
~ duffy_dev...
~ Men are 'Visual'... we go for the 'looks'.
~ Women are 'Sensual'... they go for the 'emotional' ... for the "inner beauty'
~ However, there are great combinations of the visual/sensual in each of us... some may be sincere... otheres have an alterior motive... usually sinfull in nature.
~ Know that God has a plan for YOU, duffy_dev... he knows you are a Proverbs 31:10-31 woman that He is preparing YOU for your special future husband... stay pure... stay devoted to the Lord until He reveals to you, the man He has chosen for you. Till then, don't let anyone into your body... they don't deserve you... only God's chosen one that He has for you.
~ Keep it in prayer, duffy_dev... In His time and His Will, your man will be provided.
2007-02-16 21:34:34 · answer #1 · answered by James N 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guys (especially the 'hot guys') are lying jackasses! -remember that.
You can have the most beautiful mind, God has ever blessed anyone with, but to most guys without an alluring face to get their attention nobody will ever know. Now, you're probably not ugly and confidence does make a difference if you're hot or not. You don't need surgery, or any like that to be beautiful or sexy, because God doesn't make ugly. Wear more accessories (earrings, necklaces, etc.) w. your clothes,try different styles, smile a lot more, stay real to your inner self and do more to get a guy's attention, because most of them are nice about this kind of stuff and will at least put effort forth before deciding if you're what he wants.
Do you think what makes those skinny, loud, ditsy girls so sexy is their minds? They're stupid actually, and usually self-centered. Yet because they only care about letting lose and having fun. They see the guy they want and go for it. They get turned down too because not every guy wants the Paris Hilton-Angelina Jolie, Beyonce, type. Maybe that guy wants a sexy mind more than a sexy body (which every dude has already had). And that guy could be waiting for someone like you to come and put him out of his misery. Those kind of guys DO exist and are waiting. If he thinks you're mind is sexy, and he thinks YOU are sexy.
2007-02-16 20:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nicely, that's relatively not the least confusing question to answer, and there relatively isn't a definitive answer to grant, yet i will attempt to describe and supply you a greater powerful theory of how us adult men think of many times. initially the 1st way adult men will choose a girl (and this is going for women persons judging adult men additionally) is via their seems. there is not any longer something incorrect with this through fact there is not any longer thank you to choose somebody once you first meet them. this would be a in line with genetically geared up in mechanisms to nicely known attractiveness. If a girl/guy is alluring they're greater possibly to offer a high quality offspring in case you companion with them. it relatively is path says no longer something of their psychological state, which would be stated as inner attractiveness. So i think of we are able to agree that persons ought to base their first impressions on sight, and actual attractiveness. Now we get into greater fuzzy section after this. we are all different, and how we elect who we are going to be with is different in each physique. as quickly as we get to appreciate somebody then the outward attractiveness would or won't grow to be much less significant. it relatively is definitely going to be different in each physique. some human beings would dangle to a alluring companion for no longer something different than that actual attractiveness, others may be speedier to bypass away. finally i think of the final public of adult men choose the "inner attractiveness" yet would bypass approximately looking that for the duration of a girl they think approximately alluring. So in the event that they are saying inner attractiveness they are no longer inevitably mendacity through fact they might p.c.. alluring female x and if she's "grotesque on the interior" then they're going to bypass to the subsequent alluring female till finally he unearths one that is nice to his character. there is my stab at it. desire you recognize it somewhat greater powerful now... ultimate Regards, Zachary
2016-10-15 12:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's a line and guys are always working the angle esp. with girls that are moderate looking, more of an inside shot for a good looking guy.
2007-02-16 20:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by Orion Quest 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girls do the same thing, when they say " i really care about you, but lets just be friends" it is a polite way (thank goodness for that) of no commitment
2007-02-16 20:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ur just a frnd with others so u think as
2007-02-16 20:34:32 · answer #6 · answered by ambresh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're liars and hypocrates!
2007-02-17 08:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe you have neither one.
2007-02-16 20:19:49 · answer #8 · answered by IKB 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋