I'm going to this party tomorrow where theres gonna be dancing and beer and stuff. I wanna have a great time, but my ex GF is gonna be there (we're both best friends of the host) and shes bringing her GF. We recently broke up, but I'm still in love with her.We've decided to 'start over and become good friends'. My friends all know how she is, and that she'll try her hardest to make me jealous. I'm not a lesbian by the way, I was only gay for her. Anyways, how can I just let go of her and keep her off my mind. I'll wanna kiss and dance with her so bad. I just wanna forget her, but I can't. Please help.
2007-02-16 19:54:33 · 9 answers · asked by SmashJ 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well the best way, but hard way would be, would be to not go to the party...maybe theres another party some where else...cuz if your there and you see her..feelings will fly and well it probably won't be the funnest night. Or you could bring a date or someone to the party that you can flirt with yourself, if that helps to keep her out of your mind. Either way its tought hill to climb to get over someone.
2007-02-16 20:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should not go to this party because you are still aching from your ex. You need to be single for at least 6 months and let this rebound phase pass by, so you can clear your mind. Hopefully after that time you'll be able to stand up to your ex and her piece of fluff and not be hurt. Good luck.
2007-02-16 21:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by Ved 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 12:13:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a BOY-friend who's an expert cunnilingus provider (like me..I'm single).
They say Zen Buddhism and meditation can help with anxiety also.
2007-02-16 21:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by S D Modiano 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I've never heard of anyone being gay just for 1 person..but whatever...If it's really going to get to you ..and you know she is really going to try to get to you...why are you even considering going?? Why does she try to make you jealous? It all sounds a little masochistic to me.
2007-02-16 20:03:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her when ya get there and then forget about it later on. talk to whoever else to get her off your mind. maybe you'll meet someone new.
2007-02-16 19:57:53 · answer #6 · answered by Ahmad 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well.... its going 2 b hard 4 sure... just dont look at her. simply ingonre and tell yourself you dont give a crap what she does............................. better yet dont go, or show up with some one else
2007-02-16 19:58:44 · answer #7 · answered by dodger805 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell himt
wo guys were walking at a rever bank........one saw a pole and sed to other...........this pole in your asshole...he said thanx...he he thanx...............then they saw a drum.the other one said this drum in your *** hole.......he he hee.thanx replied the first one........then they say statue of liberty....................the both are standing there till date and fighting each other to offer him first........
2007-02-16 19:57:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
become heterosexual, like normal ppl ,and she will leave you alone.
2007-02-16 20:03:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋