First of all, here is all of the details:
(I'm a girl) I have a best friend who is a girl, and then I have a boyfriend who is also best friends with my best friend.
Anyways, they both came over tonight, and we had a great time. So, pretty much after, my boyfriend asked me if he could sleep over next weekend including my friend. My parents really like him, and everythings going fine. So we planned that he would sleep in my room, on the floor with a sleeping bag. So, do you think it would work out? Would my parents say yes? Do you think it's a good idea? Do you think it's freaky?
2007-02-16 19:21:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
*Siiigh* People I have details to add. Okay, my parents think we're FRIENDS.
2007-02-16 19:27:47 · update #1
Okay, what about if I sneak in the room where he'll sleep? :D
2007-02-16 19:31:32 · update #2
Okay. Who votes for: YES I AGREE. HE SHALL SLEEP IN YOUR ROOM WITH A DAMN SLEEPING BAG or...
NO HE SHALL SLEEP IN ANOTHER ROOM
or...
SHOULDN'T SLEEP OVER AT ALL
2007-02-16 19:34:56 · update #3
HE SHALL SLEEP IN YOUR ROOM WITH A DAMN SLEEPING BAG
2007-02-16 21:24:14 · answer #1 · answered by Mariah Baybee 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you and your female friend are there, your parents might say yes. But I don't know your parents, so it's hard to say.
Parents aren't dumb though. If you tell them your boyfriend will be "sleeping on the floor in a sleeping bag" they're gonna know the deal. Unless they're clueless.
If you have an extra room in the house on the same floor, it would be a better choice to tell them he'll be sleeping in that other room.
2007-02-16 19:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! You should ccertainly be able to have your female friend stay the night, but you are way too young to be have co-ed sleepovers! I hope your parents would say no. If he is allowed to stay the night, he should sleep in another room. I would not let my 14 year old have any boy spend the night. Not at your age. I'm not a mom, and I'm only 10 years older than you, it's not "freaky", but it's not a good idea either.
2007-02-16 19:29:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say NO WAY, because when do you tell him that it is NOT ok, don't let this start. Have him come over, but he needs to go home after a certain time. Plus if he stays over even if (which I am sure it would not, nothing happens) kids at school will hear about it and you will get a BAD reputation, it really is not worth it. I hope your parents and his say NO WAY, if not say NO yourself, because you will have to live with the comments and reputation that you will start to have at school. You are becoming a young lady, so let the child hood sleepovers stop.
2007-02-16 19:26:30 · answer #4 · answered by whattheheck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the real question we should be asking is, what stage are you at in your relationship... and how long have you been friends? Then move on to do you plan on telling mom and dad... you know, that he is your boyfriend? If so, when? Do you feel that you are ready for him to sleep in your room? I think that should he stay over and sleep in another room it would be cool... but if you were my daughter and yes I have a young daughter whose BF stays over (in other room) I would say sure he can stay over but on the condition he stays in the other room...
Boys at that age are a raging ball of hormones... I know from experience...
2007-02-16 19:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by Shy R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think your parents will say yes. Boyfriend-girlfriend sleepovers aren't okay until you are out on your own, and most parents would be REALLY uncomfortable with the sleeping arrangement that you are planning.
2007-02-16 19:25:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell you're too young for that. Don't have any sleep over at your age. Just hang out and have fun going to movies or ice cream. But sleep over is like borderline sex or asking to have sex or something. You're going to make your parents uncomfortable or if your parents are totally ok with that then there's too much freedom for you at your age and it may not be all that good for you.
2007-02-16 19:29:07 · answer #7 · answered by Believe me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your parents should allow your boyfriend to sleepover. Times have truly changed my father would have killed me if I had a boyfriend at 14. He would've never in my wildest dreams let a young hormonal boy sleep in the same room as me.
2007-02-16 19:26:17 · answer #8 · answered by ?Erroneous? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea what's with your parents, but mine would never let me spend the night in the same house with a guy. Friends or not.
For instance, my family has known the Rojas's for eleven years now. They have three boys, one is about my age. So, I am NEVER allowed to spend the night there with the Rojas girl. Unless David (her brother that's around my age) is spending the night with his friend. Twenty miles away.
So, I guess it depends on how great parents yours are.
2007-02-16 19:51:35 · answer #9 · answered by Ariel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to offend you or anything but 14 is a bit young to have a bf who is sleeping over. it all depends on ur family, how ur parents were raised and what they think is right and wrong, so its hard for anyone to say. i personally would never let my kid's bf or gf sleep over unless they really needed to and i woudlnt let them stay in the same room
2007-02-16 19:26:26 · answer #10 · answered by RFJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep your room a private place for yourself at night!!!
1: it is very hard for him to sleep on the floor!
2 : it is very wrong thing if something happens in that night! you are 14!!!
3: dont tell your parent! may be they wont love your B/F anymore when they hear about his Stupid idea!!!
2007-02-16 19:30:11 · answer #11 · answered by M*K*H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋