My thing gets hard when I am around him and some other boys, its embarassing.
2007-02-16 19:08:05 · 20 answers · asked by wowdavid 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You "don't mind!" when he grabs you, or you enjoy it ?
Kid.it sounds like you might be gay, or Bi. Stop worrying and enjoy being young. I wish I had... but I was too worroed about everything... I'm making up for it now, but I wish I had the energy and body I had 20 yrs ago !!
2007-02-16 19:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by jlb.1970@btinternet.com 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
One night you should ask your best friend to have a sleep-over at your house. At some point during the middle of the night see if you can manage to lay beside him in the same bed. Then, while pretending to still be asleep... casually yawn, roll to one side, and stretch your arm... allowing your hand to land upon his private parts. Go slow, be gentle... but also do it with intent.
Just be patient and see what happens next. If your thing gets hard and your friend's thing ALSO gets hard... (plus, if he goes along with pretending to be asleep and doesn't run from the room screaming)... then go where the feelings take you. You won't need alot of conversation at that point.
The next day, what happened during the night may or may not become a topic of discussion. Sometimes denial can be a good thing... and sometimes definitions or labels are unnecessary.
If he continues to hang around with you, and readily accepts the next invitation to spend the night at your house... you may have discovered a whole new meaning of the expression "best friend"... OR NOT !!!
2007-02-16 21:25:09 · answer #2 · answered by J Andy A 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's very possible you are gay. But it sounds like you are pretty young too, and getting hard is something you will have to get used to, you can't control it at your age. Or probably any age for that matter! Experimenting is normal, don't worry yourself about it until it starts to bother you.
2007-02-16 19:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by lexus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on if you actually enjoy it, or if you get hard just because you're growing up and that's how it is. If you're gay, I wish you my best of luck, and I hope your friends and family support you completely.
2007-02-17 12:34:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, when you grab his bits, do you let go quickly? If so, you're straight. If you grab the bits and hang on for a while and your own bits get aroused then my bet is you're gay.
The word "bits" is odd, yet amusing.
2007-02-16 19:16:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well if you enjoy it and you can't stop thinking about it and you find yourself lusting after the football team instead of the cheerleaders, then chances are you have joined the family :-)
2007-02-16 19:16:34 · answer #6 · answered by Oracle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't exactly know what your first question meant, but I wouldn't worry about being gay. If you are, you are. I hope your family is supportive and understanding if you are.
2007-02-16 19:11:58 · answer #7 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No- I doubt it- it is part of growing up to experiment a bit.
2007-02-16 20:52:31 · answer #8 · answered by Ha-ha Lewis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are what you are. Explore, go with the flow, see where you are in a few years.
2007-02-16 19:11:44 · answer #9 · answered by lulu 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you like it so much, you want to do it more, you love it, than yeah.. you're gay. but thats only one possibility. the other one is you might be a bisexual.
2007-02-16 19:12:03 · answer #10 · answered by guni 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋