I never had frinds in high/middle school and it still drives me crazy. I'm in university now and I still feel like I missed something. I get so jealous of people who have friends! I still don't have many friends so I feel like I missed out and I can't stand it. I feel like that's the reason I'm lonely now and I'll never be able to catch up, I'll be lonely forever. My mom says to get over it but I'm not sure I can.
2007-02-16 18:03:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The few friends I have deffinatly aren't close to me, I'm the newbie in the group(they've been friends since high school and I just moved to the city) and most of the time I feel like I'm pushing myself on them/
2007-02-16 18:14:55 · update #1
same here 14 and i thought i had friends but all they needed me for was asnswers theyw anted me to do their homework punk me arounfd boss me around as if i was a slave now a 9th grdaer im stll treated that way butm if u start talking to people youll wiill makr friends
2007-02-16 18:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by Miguel O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself why you never had friends. Was it because you were shy or just never wanted friends. Whichever, it is time for you to make some changes in your life. Go hang out where there are lots of people and talk to everyone you can. Always be friendly and honest. You will have lots of friends in no time. Good luck.
2007-02-17 02:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by Dyan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've lived 47 years with few friends. Hey if you have a few GOOD friends I say that's better then a whole bunch of sort of false friends. I don't let many get close because I can see all the falsity and duplicity.
2007-02-17 02:09:55 · answer #3 · answered by collinbarnette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it may suck for you.. Not having many friends. But this is the way I look at it. Id rather have just a few CLOSE friends than alot of just friends. Because if you have just a few close friends then you know who you can trust.
Just keep ur head up! I know things will get better.
2007-02-17 02:08:22 · answer #4 · answered by myimmortal2256 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to have friends you should. Friends have to be earned, not every body who has friends have friends just because. I have lots of friends, but I take my time to make them feel special to me, I appreciate them and cherish them because they are an important part of my life. I just moved to LA 2 years ago, and I had to start making new friends, it was hard because I'm shy, but I would always be smiling and trying to get involved, helping others in the office, for Xmas I made some beads bracelets for all the girls in the office, it has worked!! now I have more friends than I can fit in my schedule!! but think of it, if you make others feel good about them selves, they will want to be around you
2007-02-17 02:11:20 · answer #5 · answered by maccaroni 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It may suck right now but as you get older, friends come and go.
When you meet the right guy and get married it won't matter.
Is there a particular reason that you don't have friends?
Are you talking about best friends or just people in general
2007-02-17 02:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by Johnny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more social when u go out. Your just going to have to put yourself out there even though u r naturally shy. Pretend your Paris Hilton and see if that works. Sometimes I pretend i'm a male hooker works wonders for me.
2007-02-17 02:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by DVD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe you me you're not missing out on anything. get a man or woman friend for some company other than that stick to your family.
2007-02-17 02:12:57 · answer #8 · answered by TinTin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i;m sure you have aquaubtebnces, everyone does. their the type where you say hi and hello but never really talk, how about people you eat lunch with ? you talk to them right ? arnt they your friends?
what you can do to build frienship is to talk to someone more, walk home , walk to class, etc
hope this helps.
it;s up to you to make the 1st move to say hello sometimes.
2007-02-17 02:11:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
whats keeping you from getting over it? There must be something
2007-02-17 02:08:40 · answer #10 · answered by <3♥Judy♥<3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋