When I was w/ my ex, I helped him thru suicide feelings and depression. He put me through alot. Well, he ended our relationship but wasn't truthful as to why. He wanted to get to know the girl that made him feel this way because she got pregnant w/ his child before we met. Anyhow, I had a diffifcult time dealing and had to find out what else he lied to me about, I found out alot more, one was he said hurtful things about me to this person when I did nothing but help him. He lied to me becasue he knew I was a "good" girl, classy and not trashy and didnt want me to know his secrets. Anyhow, I called him and left him a message. I told him, he was a liar, manipulator, trash, ungrateful for what I did for him, and that he was everything he said he wasn't. Well, he cant confront me and said he does not want to talk to me?! Do you think he is ashamed?How can someone treat another human being this way, knowing what I didfor him and how I cared?I know he is a liar, but do liars even feel shame?
2007-02-16 17:38:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Unfortunately, you'll find that a lot of human beings are trash and they're very selfish. That's what this guy was. He used you to feel better about himself and he clearly doesn't care that he hurt you because he got what he wanted out of it, and that was to make himself feel better. Some lairs can feel shame, some do not. It would be hard for anyone else to answer that question for you. My impression would be that he doesn't. Sadly, it's the nice people that get taken advantage of. He saw in you someone who could be useful to him and once he was done, he didn't need you any more. It's quite a shame, but many people are like that. You just need to do whatever you can to get over him. You don't need to find out what else he lied about because looking for specifics makes it hurt more. If you do more digging, you're likely only to wind up hurting yourself more. It's callous for anybody to say "just move on," but that's generally what you ought to do.
2007-02-16 17:54:34 · answer #1 · answered by Slacker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When people treat you bad all you can do is say thank you for giving me an opportunity to learn a life lesson and move on. Obviously he wasn't the man for you. Time will heal everything
2007-02-16 17:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by CookFrNW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont feel baby .say god to your feeling's .dont take suicide decision
2007-02-16 17:58:10 · answer #3 · answered by arunkundukadu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋