ive been out of hs two years and have been attending a comm college and its not exactly the most social place. Ive mainly stuck around with my two best friends from hs since it ended but I feel now that im really fading from them; ever since they met their girlfriends.. i mean i dont have trouble making new friends i just dont feel like i can leave my old group. i havent even seen either of them in a month and i havent talked to one of them in that long. ive tried calling him but he hasnt picked up his phone or returned my call. im transferring to a university in the fall and my weekends just consist of working and what not, nothing fun. but ill be forced to have a new "tight knit" when i move. id like to hear some thoughts. thanks!
2007-02-16 17:35:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is tough. As you grow older, you sometimes just grow apart, and that totally sucks. There's usually not any one reason, either. It's just the different paths our lives take based on relationships, our school choices and career paths.
All I can say is that, while your best friends from high school may be preoccupied with their own lives right now, it sounds like you've got a lot on your plate with transferring to the University, work, etc. You will probably have no problems making new friends at your new school, and you, too, will be busy with your own life. That's not to say that you should forget your best friends. By all means, try your best to keep the friendship, even if it's not as tight as it once was.
I graduated from high school 15 years ago. I am currently best friends with two of my best friends from high school, and still talk to another good friend from high school. We all started out at the same college, but then sort of drifted apart. I have not lived in the same city as them for over ten years, yet, over time, our common history and bond kept us close---even if we didn't talk for months at a time---and when we get together and hang out now, it's as if nothing's changed and we're the same as we always were.
I'm so glad I hung in there, even during the hard times. If your friends are that important to you, I hope you can do the same! :-)
Good luck!
2007-02-16 17:44:47 · answer #1 · answered by Amy K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not as old as you but i just graduated from highschool in June. I havent heard from any of my friends since then and if they call they want something. I dont get it. I know what you mean by not liking change, i hate it. I guess its normal to grow apart from your old group its just hard to except cuz you never thought you would. It's hard. To me it seems like all the years of friendship you worked on were for nothing. And yes they have other friends or gf/bfs whatever what about the friends they left behind? i dont kno what to tell you i guess just that your not alone. Keep trying till you get them or make some new friends and hope they come to there senses.
2007-02-16 18:58:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 07:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my n*gguh wus yo problem is u aint finna leave yo partnas but da truth iz my n*gguh time change ppl change u gota learn ta live like dat u feel me? y dont u get up off yo couch n kick it at the bar yadadimean? u mite jus find yoself a fine lil mama u feel me??
2007-02-16 17:41:08 · answer #4 · answered by HOW I dO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick up your phone and call your old buddies. meet them for lunch or a movie. try to meet students in your classes.
2007-02-16 18:03:19 · answer #5 · answered by Steph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋