So we dated for about 8 months. But we were having some problems. She still cares about me but she needs time. She asked if we could be friends and kinda start over. I agreed, cause I still love her. A whole lot. So I called her tonight but was at a loss for words. What shall we talk about? Please nothing sexual or gross. Thanks
2007-02-16 17:20:21 · 7 answers · asked by SmashJ 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
life in genral. i am not a lesbian or any thing so i do not know what you guys talk about but i imagine it is the same thing as straight people after a break up. just see how she is. let her know how you are. if you still love her and she does not want to be with you i guess the best thing to do is to move on. if you still want to talk to her just be tehre to support her emotionally when she needs an ear.
2007-02-16 17:28:54 · answer #1 · answered by wedjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her about other things that you have in common .how she's been ? what she had for dinner y'know all the important things!! you don't have to get into the deep and meaningful stuff especially on the phone .. from experience it is a lot easier to get the wrong idea about all kinds of things and stuff things up !! maybe see if you can see her for coffee every once in a while ..seeing her face to face is better .. you can gauge what is going on . Just keeping in touch lets her know that you still care
2007-02-17 01:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you talk about before? You must have had something in common other than sex to have dated for 8 months? Just be a friend to her...it's difficult for both of you right now...but you are both trying to be friends and that's a little bit of a hurdle after a break up..just take it slowly.
2007-02-17 02:06:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you two should cool it for a while and not talk to each other since there are still feelings involved. Feelings complicate things-you may end up saying things you wish you didn't. Good luck...and if all else fails you can always talk about TV, music or other neutral topics.
2007-02-17 01:28:59 · answer #4 · answered by sally_that_girl! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Movies are a good topic, especially if you both like to watch movies.A lot of times, issues about relationships, trust, honesty, life plans and such can come up in conversation because of plot lines and characters in them. They can be a sort of ice-breaker/springboard to start real conversations about these things
2007-02-17 01:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by smurfali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on your friendship. If you're truly starting over, then I gues talk about whatever you'd talk to a friend about and through conversations pick up on what subjects are good to bring up and what subjects aren't good to bring up. I guess you could base it somewhat off of past experience too to speed up the re-connect.
2007-02-17 01:28:30 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try tuh picture her as ur best friend that you can talk about anything with. Take ur mind off the fact she's ur ex-girlfriend.
2007-02-17 01:41:56 · answer #7 · answered by Porsh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋