i feel so alone...i don't really know why. ok. so i am 14 years old, my birthday was actually just 4 days ago, and it was really fun. i go to a really small school, there's 9 of us in our class, so we all know each other really well. but now as we got older, we kinda seperated into groups, kinda cliche thingies. not too major, we all hang out with each other, but we all act different when we're with each other, u know? well, two of the people in my class, i don't really want to say their names so i'll call them gina and lexi. gina and lexi were best friends forever, and they always hung out together. they ALWAYS talk about each other, and are always goofing off and hanging out together at the mall and stuff. well, gina's birthday was actually yesterday, and everyone was really all into it, like, everybody said happy birthday and stuff(like they did on my birthday, but they gave her that little extra attention, u know?) well gina and i used to be really good friends too-crapno moreroom
2007-02-16 16:12:21 · 12 answers · asked by tomboychick735 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and we used to be really close, and me and gina and lexi used to hang out together, too. but they in like, 7th grade, lexi and gina started to hang out a lot more than gina and i did, so i felt kinda left out. and now today, me and lexi and gina all went to the mall together. but last night lexi spent the nite at gina's house, so they had walked to the mall earlier today. when i came, we went to see a movie, and it was really funny. but then afterward, lexi and gina were all like, constantly next to each other (they're not bi or lesbian) and they were all talking about all the times that the've gone to the mall together with their other friends, about how one of their friends did something stupid and funny and they're all laughing about it and i'm just standing there, and they were going through all the stores trying to find matching bracelets, and they just were like, all checking out these bracelets, and not even paying any attention to the fact that i felt really left out...
2007-02-16 16:16:06 · update #1
and i was just feeling really left out and all awkward, and they didn't seem to care that much, which really borhtered me. like, they didn't pay the slightest amount of attention on the fact that we spent an hour going through the mall looking at bracelets that only them two were going to buy, and they didn't even say anything like, oh hey, lizzy do u wanna buy a bracelt too? or anything, they were just like, idk. they seemed to not really want me there, and they were all talking about stuff that they bought earlier today, and lexi was all takling aboutgina's birthday, and how gina's mom took her on a huge shopping trip, and how their family's remodeling gina's room, and it was all about gina pretty much the whole tiem, and i was just like, feeling really alone and left out. and gina's kinda rich and so's lexi. and i felt really left out cuz it was my birthday earlier that week, too. i just don't know what to do or why i'm writing this i guess it's just cuz i feel so crappy...
2007-02-16 16:20:56 · update #2
i agree with u i feel that way too u kinda feel like no one cares bout u and ur friends don't have u on top priority and u just wanna vent bout it and talk to sum1 bout it but u have no one cuz its a small school like no frineds i go to a rele small school too and i have the same problem wiht my best friend and i jsut wanna talk to sum1 bout it soo if u wanna talk ot sum1 bout it i'm here email me i think ur not rong bout feeling betrayed maybe betrayed is a little strong but ur jsut rele hurt thats how i feel i'm 14 too i feel the exact same as u
2007-02-16 16:26:08 · answer #1 · answered by ME! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when i was about 14 i felt kinda ditched by my friends too. But it did get better even though things changed. Sometimes i wish it was how it used to be but it is only middle/high school. You wont even talked to most of these people when you graduate. Find someone you can trust and thats all you need, someone to listen when your just feeling crappy. Dont forget there is a life outside of highschool and even if it seems incredibly important now later on the people you know will barely count. Its important to have good friends sometimes but just dont get to caught up in it. It will get better...
god bless :]
2007-02-16 16:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by evolinreverse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm I don't see how you feel betrayed by your friends?? Just because that one girl got more attention on her birthday then you did?? It's not her fault she did, it's all the other peoples. I suggest you just move on because everyone has a best friend and they love you but they aren't going to through away there long time relationship either. I am sorry if that isn't exactly what you want to her but your question makes no sense and that's the best I can do for you. So good luck and I hope it all works out for the best.
2007-02-16 16:18:55 · answer #3 · answered by LiveLifeTheWayYouWish 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try not to make this a big thing it sounds like youre reading too much into all this
it should all be OK and I think you can talk to Gina about it if you want
2007-02-16 16:25:57 · answer #4 · answered by Mike H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consult with this individual ask them why they betrayed you once you specially instructed them to no longer. To be truthful i'll assert that if this individual betrayed you once you instructed them to no longer they ovbiously arent that solid a chum yet each and every person merits 2nd opportunities so attempt conversing it out with them and given them a 2nd threat in the event that they do it lower back forget approximately approximately them they arent worh it yet hopefuly it is going to artwork out for you! solid success!
2016-09-29 05:35:18 · answer #5 · answered by goodfellow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont understand why u feel betrayed......
dont feel so miserable im sure ull have a lot of new friends
even after school...
be good to all ur friends...ignore trouble makers...or if they r too much of a problem u must try talkin to 'em...
dont waste away ur time feelin sorry for urself....
enjoy ur life ....get out & have some fun....
2007-02-16 16:41:46 · answer #6 · answered by starfire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find this sort of thing is really random.
People just forget one's birthday or something.
Try not to worry too hard about it.
2007-02-16 16:16:24 · answer #7 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are bi or lesbians who knows but they don't notice u when your hanging with them u should just tell them straight n the face i'm not gonna be your friend anymore if they tell u off just walk away and throw the finger at them trust me it's wat i did when i was going through wat u are right now but my friend was stupid and didn't know anything so ya but who knows wat will happen
2007-02-16 16:33:37 · answer #8 · answered by hell_will_rule 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can just talk to me what happened.... Maybe I can slove ur problem
panya_thug@yahoo.com
later
2007-02-16 18:40:45 · answer #9 · answered by Panya C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alrightlisten its deppresion youll get over it ok!!
2007-02-16 16:17:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋