what do I do
she's a girl and I am a girl
but she's gay and everybody knows it
but i'm still in the closet
2007-02-16 15:14:34 · 10 answers · asked by ashley s 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i say go to her and tell her you like her and if you end up with her etier tell her to keep it on the back burner or come out
2007-02-16 15:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by mommya 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything. If you hit on her, she probably won't want to date you, but she will know your secret, she may tell her friends, and after awhile everybody in school could know what you are, so why take a risk. It may be OK. to come out in the future, after you're done with school, but there's nothing to be gained by giving the other kids something to gossip about.
2007-02-16 15:35:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if shes gay then go ahead and tell her cuz theres a pretty good chance she likes you too and especially if she IS gay im having trouble finding out whos gay so be thankfull you know shes gay... email me sum time and tell me how it all goes 4 ya!
2007-02-16 15:24:58 · answer #3 · answered by sk8rgurl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, just know that homosexual relationships are sinful; despite their gaining popularity around the world. This is clearly spelled out in the Bible. Please look into this if you have any doubts.
Your temptations are normal, everyone has temptations of some kind. ...some steal, some gamble, some think they should have homosexual relations, etc. Do your best to avoid acting on your temptations, committing sins of any kind. This is what God wants for all of us, regardless of our temptations.
2007-02-16 15:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by JimDean 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
come out of the closet
2007-02-16 15:27:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Flirt a lot. Feel around to see if she may feel the same way. If you're getting the thumbs up, tell her how you feel, ask her to keep it low key, perhaps she can help you come out?
2007-02-16 15:20:47 · answer #6 · answered by addicted23doorsdown 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Come out. What have you got to lose? I'd DIE to be in your situation, you know that? It'd be so much easier if my crush was gay and out. :/
2007-02-16 15:34:09 · answer #7 · answered by Kat 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to her in private. tell her you think you are lesbian. maybe she will help you understand your feelings and give you tips on coming out. also tell her you are interested in her, say it kinda casually. don't make it a huge deal. hopefully she will give you a chance..
2007-02-16 15:49:05 · answer #8 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
make a move! date her and maybe even have sex! LOL
2007-02-16 15:22:21 · answer #9 · answered by Princess 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU NEED TO GET OVER IT. ITS A PHASE YOU NEED JESUS
2007-02-16 15:20:02 · answer #10 · answered by princessg 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋