So im a girl. 16. straight. have had boyfriends and loved it, and i love guys a lot.
In my opinion, it gross to me out to think girls like other girls that way.
Notthing wrong with being gay/lesbian/ bi....I just couldnt do it..just dont "roll" that way...and have many friends that are...so no disrespect to anyone.
but ive have caught myself thinking of and wanting to kissing my best friend. like wanting to just lean over and make out, and this has happened many times.
what do you think?
thank you
2007-02-16 15:13:46 · 4 answers · asked by danielle c 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think everyone's capable of being attracted physically and emotionally w/ romantic feelings for the same sex, no matter what has been ingrained in you by society.
If you have deeper feelings than friendship for your best friend, and the attraction is so strong that you want to kiss her, I would think you are bi. The idea of kissing any girl may not appeal to you, but your best friend comes with emotional ties that run deep....so physically expressing your affection for her may not be as unappealing as sex with a girl you don't really know. In fact, you may find if you kiss her that it's not so bad at all. :)
Do you get the impression she feels the same?
Keep in mind that if you go that way with her, your relationship will change. It's inevitable when intimacy enters the picture. But it could be a good change, if it's something you both really want.
Good luck!
2007-02-16 15:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by grrluknow 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I recently delved into bi-curiousity myself, to be honest. I've always had a few 'exceptions' like Kira Knightly and Uma Thurman, but last year I became friends with a girl that I could honestly see myself dating. (Not that she knows that. XD) There's nothing wrong with it, it's just questioning sexuality. Most everyone does it at some point.
2007-02-16 15:25:11 · answer #2 · answered by Kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you wanna make out with your best friend, then you have at least some curiousities. you may not like the thought of being bi, but try not to worry about it. but if you really find yourself craving a kiss from your best girl friend, then perhaps you need to pursue things..do you think she'd actually experiment with you? you could ask her and see!
2007-02-16 15:37:51 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you want to you should try it. my first kiss with a girl was my bff. it felt so...um...i dont know how to explain...real i guess. probably b/c i had other feelings cause we were so close.
2007-02-20 13:42:11 · answer #4 · answered by rocker_chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋