Lately ive been fantasizing about doing it with other guys and ive been watching gay porn, i try to stop but sometimes i just want to, i like girls but i dont like guys i just fantasize about them, ive also had a few gfs and im still a virgin. Also i rarely get turned on just by watching a girl, but in pictures i do. Is this just a stage? Because i like girls and i dont want to be gay or bi, and also ive had gay sex with a friend and i really regret it..Can someone please help? What should i do?
2007-02-16 14:35:20 · 11 answers · asked by [tha kid] 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
im 14 and im not genetically gay because i just started doing this this year and i think the only reason i fantasize is because i havent seen a real girl naked yet..
2007-02-16 14:54:27 · update #1
dont be afraid to be gay there is nothing wrong with it
2007-02-16 18:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend i have seen ur details and i have undesrstood that ur not a gay i give u a few suggestions
1.u can talk to guys but donot maintain a relationship
2.get closed to girlz and start making a reationship again
3.have sex only with girlz ok
4.stop watching gay prone sites
5.contro ur emotions read the bibble or the bagavath gita
6.stay ur self with a girl companion ok
well all the best
2007-02-17 00:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by karteek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it might be a stage..but it might mean that you really are gay. How old are you? the answer to that would help in determining your situation. In the end you have to do with your life what makes you happy. If you are gay then enjoy it. If you are not then enjoy that too.
2007-02-16 22:41:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think you should except who you are but I know it hard
I can relate because I am bi and I am finally starting to accept myself
so just be who you are
there's nothing wrong with being gay,bi,or straight
2007-02-16 23:24:06 · answer #4 · answered by ashley s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just young and curious! You have a long way to go and you need to just slow down. I don't think you are gay or bi.
2007-02-16 23:12:37 · answer #5 · answered by kar506 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm about 95% certain you're in that young and confused stage a lot of people go through.
2007-02-17 00:38:23 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sooner you stop beating yourself up for who ever you might be the easier life will be for you! It's OK to be gay. It's OK to be Straight... Self acceptance is the key.
2007-02-16 22:56:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your'e genetically gay, that's it. your'e gay. you can't fix it. but you can controll your actions. if you had sex period you are not a virgin. just learn to love who you are. theres nothing wrong with who you are as long as you don't "self hate"
2007-02-16 22:43:54 · answer #8 · answered by K.K. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your time, be yourself, and play safe. Your young, and have lots of time. Be open minded enough to just be yourself...take care, and play safe...Jim
2007-02-17 12:46:31 · answer #9 · answered by lakecountry40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be you!!! homosexuality isn't a choice! its how we are born. you can try to change but you will not be happy
2007-02-20 21:39:19 · answer #10 · answered by rocker_chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋