Has anyone had so many years of mistreatment from a spouse that they decided to instead of divorce. Stay and make the "bad spouse" suffer more? Like for instance if your husband has treated you like dirt for years that you eventually become numb to it, that instead of divorcing, and having to take on the full responsibility of working and raising you kids by yourself, splitting half you assets and income and becoming a one paycheck family. While, you know if you divorced, your ex would just leave and have all the fun and find a new girlfriend and neglect your kids. Has anyone just decided to stay?
2007-02-16 14:30:47 · 5 answers · asked by Destiny 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Have you come to a point, you feel you don't deserve to be loved. Fear there isn't a better life for you and your kids. What lessons are they learning about what Love is supposed to be, what kind of relationships are ahead for them. None of these are reasons to stay or leave. They are points, many have been through, many have stayed in an abusive relationship while others have left. Your answer lies within you, and its your decision BUT, listen to the stories of those that have been where you are, not the speculation of how people would do it. Anyone who hasn't been there, can't understand your pain.
2007-02-16 18:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by sllyjo 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
thats not a good reason to stay. you're just living in that hate, and sticking with those bad feelings. make him pay child support, who cares if he gets a new girlfriend? why would u want to stay with someone who treated u like crap, go out and make your own life great and find someone who will treat u special, instead of wasting time trying to pay someone back. life is too short
2007-02-16 22:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No......staying would make you miserable and your children too.â¥
But that is just my opinion,but i can really understand what you are saying............
2007-02-16 22:35:38 · answer #3 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never been there... hope to never be either? Are you? God bless you ... oh my goodness
2007-02-16 22:35:16 · answer #4 · answered by chanteuse87 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no......the struggle for independence...survival....is mere....
compared to the years of....
2007-02-16 22:36:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋