My dad is homophobic so how can i tell him?
2007-02-16 14:03:14 · 9 answers · asked by KETfwl2006 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Why do you have to tell everyone? They don't need to know your private sex life.
2007-02-16 14:07:23 · answer #1 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Clarkie If you really feel you need to tell some family maybe tell your mother first and get her support ! Your father may have an stereotypical view of sexuality and may not want to know.?Do what you do and invite your friends to the house so that they can see that you are someone with good friends who can be discriminating.Parents are more concerned in a general way about your overall happiness and health . Let them know you love them!
2007-02-16 14:15:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got a couple options. It all depends on how open and honest you want to be with your folks. If you want to be really close, then sit them down and do the whole coming out thing. Build up your confidence first and be prepared to be kicked out. If you kinda want some relationship with them, avoid talking about your love life when you can and if you're cornered say something that outs yourself. If you don't care if they know anything about you and want to get by without a fight, then lie and avoid telling them the truth until you're not dependent upon them.
2007-02-16 17:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your family usually discuss their sexual escapades openly? Usually, who you have sex with is uncomfortable for family members to share. As far as friends are concerned, your preferences shouldn't make a difference. No apology or confessions needed.
2007-02-16 14:23:43 · answer #4 · answered by mrcdsbnzgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you want to inform them, be blunt. basically lay it on the table. you don't want some magical set of circumstances to target to point the taking area in container. in the adventure that they are going to be hostile to it, then wrestle fireplace with fireplace, and lay it on them. they are your kinfolk and could love you unconditionally. besides the undeniable fact that, in case you imagine you're going to go back lower than that a lot fireplace, then why enable them understand? that is compared on your rubbing it in there faces now I imagine. i'd basically be your self, and stay the way you want to. in the adventure that they discover out, they discover out. you need to not experience obligated to inform them some thing. fairly that is none of their organization.
2016-12-04 06:51:10 · answer #5 · answered by jaffar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to tell anyone but if you really want to, than you should probably start off like saying hi, greeting them well, and start off "dad, well~ i decided..." and yeh so on....just like basically ask them what their point in what you have become and if they over react, than you can defend by saying you know, you want to be who you are and stuff~
2007-02-16 14:09:19 · answer #6 · answered by trihot1262 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dad is too but he's come around to accepting it. i just told him once and never pushed the issue. i totally respect my parents when it comes to that
2007-02-16 14:28:37 · answer #7 · answered by smkdkron 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then dont tell him if he will freak out.!!
keep it a secret if u have to
2007-02-16 14:13:48 · answer #8 · answered by ceecee800 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have to?
2007-02-16 14:06:32 · answer #9 · answered by Clarkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋