My man lives 3000 miles away from me, and I know that he completely loves me, and I know we will be getting married someday... but it bothers me that he emails girls on YAnswers. He says it bothers him I email friends (guys) on myspace, but atleast I know them... he has no clue who these women are on here? I might be overreacting, but it gives me the worst feeling in the pit of my stomach.
2007-02-16 13:44:34 · 15 answers · asked by smurfette 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Do I ask him to stop? Do I stop emailing my friends?
2007-02-16 13:48:42 · update #1
I have a good idea about that feeling in the pit of your stomach. I get it a lot too. She just has to mention the guy friend that calls her and sings to her, the guy friend that she meets for dinner and cocktails, or the guy friend that gives her his demo tape for her to rock out to when she's cleaning the house. I'm sure there are other guy friends that she has but there is nothing I can do about it. I don't wanna be the jealous @sshole but there are times when I literally feel my stomach turn at the thought of her hanging out with other guys. She insists that it's "no big deal" and that they are just her "friends," so I've been trying to play it cool even though I feel like puking whenever she mentions one of them. The last thing that I would wanna do is jeopardize this beautiful relationship that we have by focusing on some petty issue. Do I wish she had never met these guys? Absolutely. Do I want her to not talk to them ever again? Not necessarily. The problem is that I don't know these guys at all. They could be Richard Simmons or the Night Ripper for all I know. But it's frustrating for me when they get to have some face time with her and I'm left home alone, with my keyboard and some talking avatars as friends. Sure, it's no secret that I've exchanged emails with some females online, but there were some fellas that I responded to as well. These online exchanges were nothing more than a brief "what's bothering you" or "thanks for the ten points" or "I liked your answer to so&so question."
I'm not going to try and justify these exchanges because they were brief and innocent. The fact of the matter remains that I love her so dearly that I think about her ALL of the time. There really is no more room left in my heart for anybody else. And, in case you are wondering, my body is all for her as well. If somebody wants to shoot me an email to me that says " hey, hang in there buddy" or "I feel your pain," then whatever. I'll thank them kindly, reply back in a neutrally polite way, and never hear from them again. I'm not into blind dates, never have been. Once I met my beautiful girl, I knew she was something special. I will not stray from her and I just hope that she knows that.
2007-02-16 16:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by BRAINS! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a second. Why is he doing that in the first place? I suppose it's not very smart of him to do this emailing amongst the unknown females, but if it bothers him that you email guys you know on myspace, then there needs to be a little give and take on both sides.
2007-02-16 21:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by no_name_face 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uhh..what a jerk-asss. I mean, the whole long distance e-love can be cool but..not if on the side he's emailing other girls! WHOM HE DOESNT KNOW. If theyre friends thats cool..but not random girls..i mean, he met YOU online right? or..did he? If he did..then he could very easily become interested in someone else...so you need to be careful with that. Im not sayin like, hack into his email and stuff but..just talk to him about it and tell him that I said he should stop being a skank and he should know better than that.
2007-02-16 21:50:42 · answer #3 · answered by Minty 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like both of you need to spend more time together discussing your relationship. You're spending way too much time with other people on line,.
2007-02-16 21:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by Grianagh 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if it bothers u that much then maybe u don't trust him. it us not a big deal, unless he's only emailing women
2007-02-16 21:55:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's bothering you for a reason, the two of you need to talk about it.
2007-02-16 21:47:17 · answer #6 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Time for a heart to heart
2007-02-16 21:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by RIVER 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
both of u try to test the other about how much his love
lololol
i think both of u should stop this game hehehe
i think each one of u try to prove to the other that he/she feel more jealous than the other
2007-02-16 21:48:47 · answer #8 · answered by micho 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what does he email them about?? do you know??? and what do you email these guys about that you know???? just dont let this jealousy control you...
2007-02-16 21:49:22 · answer #9 · answered by Savannah 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No.....it is okay to feel jealous at times
2007-02-16 21:47:19 · answer #10 · answered by Dairy Fairy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋