My friend is 14 and she's having sex and her parents dont know it. Hes a junior and shes a freshman. I really dont want her to have sex but she doenst listen to me b/c she did it again last night? Can anyone help me out?
2007-02-16 13:25:07 · 9 answers · asked by Shelby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i made some typos sorry!
2007-02-16 13:30:47 · update #1
First of all you have to realize that you can talk and talk and talk until you are out of air but in the end, your friend will do what she wants - this is not your decison, it is hers. It's her life and she will do what she wants with it. I know that you care about her, so try and talk to her like a friend and make sure that she knows exactly what she is risking. Make sure that she has all the facts. If you really want to, and if you think that she is really going to get into trouble - then you should tell her parents and see if they can do anything about it. Try and do it annonymously or something.
2007-02-16 13:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by Skyla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can you do??? I started at 14 and was pregnant at 16, just give her a good wake up call!!! Tell her how doing something as stupid as having sex at such a young age can dramatically change her life in a way that she could never imagine. It might seem fun now, but when she is in labor that isn't going to be a laughing matter! Hope you can get through to her some how, but I doubt it. Good Luck!
2007-02-16 21:32:37 · answer #2 · answered by mama4e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask your self why you don't want your Friend having sex? Is it not a personal choice that she is making that is really non of your business. Could it be that you are jealous that your friend has found someone she wants to be close with and you have not so you are feeling a little behind.
If these are not the reasons and she is being hurt by the person that she is having sex with then that is different and you need to call the police or tell her parents.
Be aware you might just lose your Friend for sticking your noise in her business.
2007-02-16 21:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by Chris D 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well im14, and ide love to have sex, but im a guy, so i dont have to worry about having a babey... just makes sure ur friend is either using a condom or birth control pills
2007-02-16 21:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you care about her very much. Warn her you will tell her parents. she will either get alarmed and stop or keep doing it. if she keeps doing it, tell her parents. shes your friend and you want whats best for her? whats best s if her parents stop her since you tried. shell hate you but sooner or later cpome to her senses. if shes a good friend, shell understand
2007-02-16 21:30:29 · answer #5 · answered by open_minded_grl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her sex is not the answer that guy is just looking to get laid by a young hot piece of @ss
2007-02-16 21:31:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG way to young Im about to be 16 and I still think thats disgusting. tell her to stop b-4 she gets her heart broke...
2007-02-16 21:31:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
speak to her about birth control and safe sex.
2007-02-16 21:40:12 · answer #8 · answered by Maka 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn man i feel sorry for her i mean if she gets pregnat then she might get the baby taken away from her or it could be really painfull
2007-02-16 21:29:30 · answer #9 · answered by nationwide 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋