why some people try to be so scientifical about homosexuality (and claim it is choice) but forget to...?

Question

just ask homosexuals about it?
Who will know better?

Answer 1

Scientifical? Is that something like explicatable? Can you ask a question and expect a satisfactorical answer without some sort of educatedable responsivity? And if there's no choicivity involved at all, how did my car drive itself here to the old gay bar festivitical?

Answer 2

I posed a question about "choice" or "no choice", and said I was seeking PROOF. No one could show me scientific PROOF one way, or the other. The APA and AMA both admit that it is NOT a disease.

So far, in my mind, I do not know if it is a choice or not. I believe that some cases are brought on by sexual abuse (a women hating or fearing men because she had been raped). But the reason for the majority of the individuals, in my mind, is yet unknown.

You say, "just ask homesexuals about it ? Who will know better?".

First of all, they just know what they think, what they have heard, how they feel, or what they want to say. They don't have any more proof than the scientific community. Ask a person who smokes, if they are addicted to cigarettes, and they will most likely say NO. Ask an alcoholic if they are an alcoholic, and they will most likely say NO. Ask a drunk person if they are drunk, and they will most likely say NO. Ask an abuser if they abuse, and they will most likely say NO.

In short, no matter what anyone claims, as of this day and time, the cause of homosexuality is still not known.

Not that this diminishes them as a person in any way, shape or form. People are different in many different ways, and this is just one of the ways that people differ.

Who is right, and who is wrong ? Is there a right and wrong ? Without knowing more about it, who can possibly say that homosexuals are wrong ? Even knowing more about it, who can say it is wrong - it is wrong in whose eyes ?

The whole problem can only be solved with people minding their own business. If two guys, or two girls, (above age of consent) want to go at it, why should anyone else care ?

Answer 3

ok it is scientifically proven that it is science what causes real homosexuality. there are some cases where people choose that lifestyle. An example would be my friend who was raped by a guy and now can never feel comfortable around them and therefore is now with a girl that she met in college that she is very much in love with. Or who know's maybe it wasn't a choice at all? It could have been a psychological thing that she couldn't help. I'm not sure if homosexuality is always caused by a disease but I know that homosexuality in males can be caused by Kleinfelter's syndrome which as far as I know is an extra chromozone but you might want check how accurate that is. When you get to that age where you start to like boys/girls did you just decide one day you were going to start to like that gender? I doubt it. It came naturally. The gender that you are generally attracted to is not a choice but your actions are a choice. I personally don't think that homosexuality is wrong.

Answer 4

If someone is going to be prejudiced and biased about a subject, then you can count on the person that subject is about to be.

Even if you could count on them to give an unbiased answer, what makes you think that they KNOW the true answer. Or that they fully understand the question.

And for that woman above me, I and others wouldn't discuss the subject that aren't homosexuals if they wouldn't make it public. By exposing us to it they take it from being a private matter to being a public matter, and anything that is made public is my business. If they don't want our input on it, then they can shut their mouths.

I think the be problem is that they don't want to hear the truth and wish to remain delusional, that way they don't have to take responsibility for the choices that they make.

And if it wasn't a choice, then there would be something to solidly support that other than "That's the way I feel in my heart". They would want some hard proof that showed that it wasn't a choice so that they'd have it to back them up. It's usually people who are afraid of having their beliefs exposed as being unfounded that attempt to keep others from examining them too closely.

BTW I have two gay brothers and neither of them ever made that cop out statement that it wasn't a choice.

Answer 5

Like most liberals, homosexuals are very repressive of other opinions. You can ask homosexuals who stopped committing homosexual acts. They are "former" homosexuals who are living testimony that it is entirely a choice and not genetic, nor even required.

In other words, I have asked the homosexual himself. But are you willing to hear their answers?

Answer 6

True. A homosexual is obviously going to understand better. Actually, I don't even think people need to find an explanation for being gay. I think everyone needs to just mind their own business.

Answer 7

Ah, they assume that all homosexuals are going to lie about it. Usually the people who insist that it's a choice despite the facts are also stuck in a hateful mindset and assume all gay people are bad.

Answer 8

all teh scientific research ive seen so far, seems to point into the direction of it not being a choice. ill get back to you if i come across something that points in the other direction.

Answer 9

I may be straight but I do know that you can't help that way that God made ya, and most if not all of the gay people that I know would NOT want to change.

Answer 10

Former gay my ***.

Christians know what is good for you better than you do, don't you know that?