Everyone in my new school hates me!
FOR NO REASON!
WHY?
2007-02-16 12:43:03 · 20 answers · asked by *Mariah* 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Makeup
I'm 13 years old. I go to a new school. I have black hair that is long,straight and layered. I have olived skin.
-Ok, I have this eye color that everyone doubts me on. And I hate it!!!!!! My mother and I have the same exact natural eye color.
Nobody likes me in my new school. Everyone hates me. I don't understand why.
Everyone says I am so ugly. And how my eye color is fake.
I even showed them a 3 year old picture of me, and my eyes were the same. I swear, I am not lying. I'm so tired of people thinking I am.
Here is my EXACT natural eye color :
http://www.eyescolored.com/catalog/product_info.php/products_id/52...
Please believe me. I know, it's strange and ugly. I hate them too.
But why does everyone in my new school hate me??? I haven't done anything!I've never once hard anyone say "You're beautiful" to me.I feel so ugly. And please, don't criticize me. I swear, please believe me, I am telling the truth. Nobody else will.
2007-02-16 12:43:18 · update #1
Sweetie, just be yourself, you don't have ANYthing to prove to ANYbody, alright? I couldn't tell which eyecolor you were referring to but I'm sure you can find fault with everyone who is trying to hate on you. Don't worry about them!! Beyonce' was hated on once, now look at her............
2007-02-16 12:53:10 · answer #1 · answered by beenabytch 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are "the new kid", it's high school, kids are evil. There doesn't have to be any reason.
Your eyes sound incredible. That is, unbelieveable... It does exist withing the realm of possibility for a very lucky few. It sounds like you and your mother may be two of those people. Your classmates may be jealous. There is nothing you can do about what they think... just be you. They are your eyes, so they aren't going anywhere fast.
Don't let it stress you out. Stay focused on your studies (raise your grades, even) and wait for the next new kid to show up, see if they turn like vultures on fresh carrion. In the meantime, it is probable that not EVERYONE in the school hates you. There tend to be a few very visible leaders who can make you think they speak for everybody, but there are probably some very nice people who have been pushed out of view. Try seeking them out.
2007-02-16 14:00:22 · answer #2 · answered by Petey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no one had said "you're beautiful" to you but no one actually said "you're ugly!" too.
hi. i'm cecille.
15. in 3rd yr hs.
i have only 4, 5 real friends. among 35 in my class. and about a 100 in the whole third year level.
I LOVE IT!!!!!
you know why? its because though i only have 4, 5 friends, they are all my real friends. no one is just sharing smiles with me. when i need something, they are there for me.
try to make friends, 1, 2 at a time. you may not have 50, 60, or even 100 friends but..... SO WHAT?
your eyes are not like others but that's great.
i have black eyes, black hair. i'm asian.
I LOVE IT!
people wish for blue eyes, blonde hair like barbie's. why? i dont get it? hy will you like something that almost everyone has? do you not like to be unique? and special? think of yourself as beautiful. and you will be. no matter what others think.
do not let people to judge you by how you look. win them over by your attitude, your smile, your warmth.
you ARE beautiful no matter what they say. words CANNOT bring YOU down! as christina once sung.
"do not tell the children that we are all the same. we are not. celebrate the difference."
2007-02-16 12:59:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had exactly the same problem in school. And I just started to love and respect my self, of course it is never easy. But you have to put yourself first, and also from the way you described yourself, it sounds that you ARE a BEAUTIFUL person. You just don't want to accept yourself the way you are, and that is why others don't want to accept you as well. So just stop critisizing yourself, and start thinking of yourself as the best person who ever lived. And remember that there is alsways people who might critisize you as well as people who would think that you a great person. There is a European saying that goes: If you want to totally ruin your life, then try to make everyone to like you. . . . And that is so true, you can never make everyone to like you, but at least you can always love you self. . . .
I hope that helps, and also remember that I will be always thinking about you and encourage you in my mind.
2007-02-16 13:20:53 · answer #4 · answered by Roxolana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 07:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had almost the same situation in high school. But now it seems so foolish. Who cares what everyone else thinks. I realized that as long as I liked me, then it doesn't matter what anyone thinks. I like who I am. At the end of the day and when my life is over I'll have to answer only to myself and to God.
2007-02-16 12:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by gus_zalenski 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i saw your eye color. it pretty! it aint ugly, it unique and wonderful in it own way, unlike mine, brown and soo not unique. those kids at your school hae issues. the same thing happened to me when i moved here, i was 13 too. for no reason at all everyone in my new school judged me on how i looked without even knowing the real me. but see, that's when you start to notice who your real friends are. i know it hurts and i wont tell you that its wrong to feel hurt. because its not. its just natural. but dont ever let the kids who tease you see you hurting because that gives them satisfaction. don't worry, it will pass, soon people will realize how much they have hurt you, and most of them wont even say sorry, but dont dwell on that. dont believe the lies they keep talking. they dont know who re so they have no right to judge you, but they're people, we are all built to judge, its just that everyone uses it differently. the way you use it is how you will be remembered. i hope fighting bqack will not be your resolution.
2007-02-16 12:55:55 · answer #7 · answered by lyra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it makes you feel any better I think everyone s me at the school i go to. But i beleve you because people can get the eye color you have. I know what being made fun of is like i have been made fun of before. I know you and i both know what its like but i like you you seem cool. Well hope i made you feel better and hope i helped you out.
2007-02-16 12:53:15 · answer #8 · answered by hanna j 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girls can be kinda cruel
(go watch mean girls)
r u sure "everyone" hate you though?
and to be blunt, r u sure u r not the one that is driving
ppl away from urself?
anyhow, dont worry about ur looks
be a good person, work hard, and move on
(and get some real friends)
2007-02-20 05:50:41 · answer #9 · answered by Billy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don`t know about those girls, but i love your eye color. whether or not people think they`re real or fake, don`t worry about them. life`s too short to worry about ignorant people. they don`t hate you, they just have a hard time accepting someone new ! when i was new in my old elementary school way back then, man, i felt so hated, but as time went by, i met new people, etc. it`s really not that bad, trust me.
2007-02-16 13:02:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋