One of my best friends and I have known each other for our whole lives.As she always says, we've known each other since before we were born because our mothers met when they were pregnant.We've always trusted each other with everything and have never been shy to say anything to each other.Lately, she's been acting strange.I think she's going through a phase.She's acting more mature.In kind of a bad way.At her school dance, she wore this tiny mini-skirt.It barely went past her butt, as she described it to me.She also has been talking to all of her new friends.Everytime I call her, she's giggling and laughing.I can hear her typing.She says she will call me back later.Either that, or she's on the other line with some of her friends whom she always complains about to me.She's not the same anymore.Is everyone in their early teen years going through a similar phase (I'm younger than her and nowhere near maturity, don't blame me) or is she just different?
2007-02-16 12:39:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yeah, I agree that I can't stop her from becoming what she wants to be.I guess it was just that she changed so suddenly.
2007-02-16 12:44:37 · update #1
Thing is, she isn't more popular than me, at least it seems that way.We go to different schools, and to be super popular, you have to be a complete jerk, and neither of us are like that.Maybe she is trying to raise her popularity status.
Oh, and I have more best-friends from school.But I would still kinda miss her if she left me behind.Sometimes I want to be her friend and sometimes I don't, because lately she's been mistreating me.Not like the ways I've told you-she's been plain rude and hypocritical.
2007-02-16 12:50:10 · update #2
It is different, but you shouldf tell her that you need to talk to her. Tell her she doesn't need to dress that way because if you are a good person then you will be liked nomatter what happens. Tell her that if she calls you could she please talk to you instead of being distracted. Tell her you appriciate her and look up to her but you need to talk to her without distractions sometimes. A heart to heart talk only inproves a relationship, it doesn't hinder it. Take care Heather
2007-02-16 12:45:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok well this kindof sounds like she is growing up (not that she is more mature). She is probably interested in meeting boys & it is different if you aren't in that stage yet. (you mentioned u r younger, although u did say your mothers were both pregnanat so u shouldn't be soo far apart in age)
I went through a stage like that when all that mattered was boys.
I'm not sure what exactly to tell u, maybe u just have different interests... as you are growing up you will have many friends, and just because u were childhood friends doesn't mean that you will stay that way.
Just remember to keep her & your self safe, bc growing up means making mistakes & learning from them.
best of luck
2007-02-16 12:53:25 · answer #2 · answered by <3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she may be going seperate ways. People change once they get older, some friends just don't cut it after awhile, no matter how close you guys are. I would just wait it out, and see if she will get through this phase, but you can't stop her from becoming the person she is. If you can't be friends forever, you're just going to have to accept that.
2007-02-16 12:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by ~carmie~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shes growing up and leaving you behind. It sounds like she might be more popular than you.Widening her circle of friends.This happens all the time with young girls and I know it hurts.What I would do is stop calling her and let her call you.Try that and see what happens if she doesn't call you,you know she is just growing up.As you grow up you make new friends and leave old ones behind.It happens and I know it hurts. I would start looking for a new best friend.
2007-02-16 12:46:37 · answer #4 · answered by little3nikki 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes well u have 2 be there 4 her it might seem like shes happy but usualy when somone is doing this they are secretly depress or insecure she has to know u will always be her friend shell get over it and become more mature i know she seems lik the mature one but what but wat shes doing is just an act its not her realy personality anyway be there 4 her shll get over it and o and the typing is aim (aol instant messaging)
2007-02-16 12:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by twinkletoes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think your friendship is okay and that she is being different.
2007-02-16 12:44:02 · answer #6 · answered by coyotefirerain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is growing up and i thank that she should have more friends than just u and about the skirt it is her body she she can wear wat ever she wants u don't pick out clothes 4 her
2007-02-16 12:52:06 · answer #7 · answered by lady_drama 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋