uhmm well i am scared to tlk 2 my mom about condoms im almost 13 but ppl my age ask 2 have sex and im afraid if i sayyes i will get pregnant and i dont want that i need help tlk 2 me!
also wht is teroids(im not sure if thats the proper spelling or if thats it)
2007-02-16 12:26:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Please wait. I am 25 and I waited until I was 17 to have sex. Even though I was a lot more mature than 13, I still wished I had waited. You have no idea what is emotionally involved in having sex. It can change your life forever. When you do start having sex, you can do it forever. You can only be a virgin now. After that, it will be gone and you will wish you had it back to give to someone special. I believe, even in our sex-obsessed society, that sex without love is wrong. Don't just give it to anyone. It's a sacred thing.
2007-02-16 17:26:24 · answer #1 · answered by queenB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look.... haveing sexual feelings at 13 is totally normal and being cautious and not wanting to get pregnant is smart of you.... But heres the thing....
you should really wait a few more years... hold out as long as you can because the only thing that haveing sex at 13 does is give you a reputation.... It will make school more stressful and when you start you have so many more things to worry about...
Just try to hold out a bit, people may say that you are a prude, or a tease but in reality more guys will want you because they can't have you no matter what they say.....
If you really are not gonna take everyones advise about waiting then you really should talk with your mom no matter what the consequence.....
2007-02-16 20:59:27 · answer #2 · answered by mindfog27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never ever feel pressured into having sex if anyone makes you feel that way there not worth knowing.
Dont feel embrassed to talk to your mum, shes probaly be happy that you come to her for advise as long as you tell her your not planning on doing it for a while, cause then she might be annoyed and worried for you.
Plaease remember thought you are under the legal age limit to have sex and could get into trouble, and the guy involved to.
But if you feel you cant talk to your mum go to your family planning clinic or talk to a teacher or close friend or family member.
Its not getting pregant you have to worry about there is also all the STD 's you can get from unproctected sex.
Be careful and think long and hard before you have sex for the first time it should be when your ready and not before hand.
2007-02-17 10:55:11 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know sex is getting popular to younger kids....I had sex when I was 16...I had been dating my boyfriend for 2 years, and I am still with him. I feel that 13 is too young..but if you are atleast 16 and in a COMMITTED relationship, then it's fine. But if you are not completely sure what you want, then don't. Otherwise, you will regret it. I know many girls that regret who and when they lost it to. So just be careful, it is big decision. But when you are ready, talk to your mom. Mothers know everything...just think about it alot.
2007-02-16 23:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by piper_628 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
Look here's the point,i am 14 and i am so waiting until im at least 18 to have sex...yeah so you use a condom but what if something happens to it and what if you got pregnant? what would you do with a child at 13?????DON'T DO IT..
2007-02-16 21:20:00 · answer #5 · answered by BabyGirl Emily. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let anyone pressure you into having sex, you are too young yet, pregnancy is only one of the consequences, getting a sexually transmitted disease or cervical cancer are others besides the same people that have sex with you will call you a slut.
2007-02-16 20:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by Georgewasmyfavorite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT have sex..... know wait even if all your friends are all doing it DONT you will regret it.....wait to find the right guy it will be soo worth waiting for .......and you wont find the right guy at 13 trust me...and its 2007 sexually transmitted diseses are going around like crazy dont do it!!!!
2007-02-16 20:34:43 · answer #7 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont have sex at your age...its not worth it. You will be happier later in life if you just wait about 5 years or so...its a big step and you shouldnt be doing it unless you are truely in love...and at your age no one really understands love...wait till later in life until you fully understand to benefit yourself...you WILL be happier if you wait.
2007-02-16 20:36:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 13 you shouldnt be having sex. your too young and you will regret it later on in life. just wait until you are ready for real. not because everyone else is doing it or say they are.
2007-02-16 20:57:25 · answer #9 · answered by lilcutie8899 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to wait until you atleast get to highschool... and, at youngest. 18. i'm not a supporter of pre-marital sex, but atleast wait until you're 18 and mature.
2007-02-16 21:00:47 · answer #10 · answered by fhockeeshortee28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋