i haven't seen one of my best friends in a while and now i'm starting to think that we'er not friends anymore...and i really wanted to see him like yestuday but now i don't know if i want to see him at all...
what do i do to stop myself from hating my best friend?
2007-02-16 12:23:37 · 15 answers · asked by Blondie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the other thing is he lives about an hour and a half away and i have to take a train to see him and i don'e hate him for something he did it was just more of the feeling that we aren't friends anymore and i don't feel a connection
2007-02-16 12:32:15 · update #1
Honey, need more details than that! Do u hate him just because u don't see him or because of another reason. I think you obviously miss him call him and see what happens!!!
2007-02-16 12:27:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth just get over it. Not everyone can have time for anybody unless they're first priority. The best thing you can do is to try to keep yourself busy, and maybe call him up and invite him to hang out. If you want something take the initiative to go and do something about it or you might be waiting for the longest time. Please, save yourself from boredom and enjoy life to the fullest, you only life once.
2007-02-16 20:35:38 · answer #2 · answered by anna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like hating your "best friend" then you are not a good friend. Have you ever thought for one brief second that your friend has some things going on that are more important than you thought? Maybe you friend has discovered what a poor friend you really are and has moved on with his life.
2007-02-16 20:28:31 · answer #3 · answered by kellie_michelle_adams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how in the world could you dislike a best friend you havent seen in a while?
you better ask your friend how he feels about you.
has he given you a reason to dislike him.
been dishonest?
id bet on love if you have any reason to believe that hes a real friend.
life ends to quick,
go get what you want respectivly.
drop the truth like a bomb and let the chips fall where they may.
2007-02-16 20:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by stakchipz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to him and ask how he's doing. Just talk and stuff, and ask to hang out sometime. I think you're losing interest in being friends with him because you forgot what it's like to really talk to him. Just forget the fact that you haven't seen him for a long time.
2007-02-16 20:31:26 · answer #5 · answered by Joshua T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up. I once had a friend who I hardly communicated with, but it's best to try to keep holding on with the communication. It depends on how often you try to talk to your friend. He may get the hint that you don't want to be his friend anymore because of lack of communication. Even if he does not try to talk to you, you should try to interact with him. He may be having a really busy life schedule and you may not know it. If you want this friendship to last, start communicating.
2007-02-16 20:29:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think of the memories you had with him.
Then think if it's worth to rekindle that friendship.
But consider if he also wanted to do the same or
else don't worry,
but hopefully you can have a better chance,
old friends are good to keep.
2007-02-16 20:31:12 · answer #7 · answered by JUSS 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking about things that will make you think of hating your friend.
2007-02-16 20:37:50 · answer #8 · answered by migumi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just see them already!! that happens a lot to me when i dont see people! it'z like i lose interest in them..but once i see that person again, its like all new!!! hee hee..i realize why they were my friend and glad i made that decision to have them in my life...but if things arent the same when i see them again, then i just let it go...
2007-02-16 20:27:14 · answer #9 · answered by TiGoBiTiZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it one day at a time.Try and give him a call and ask him what is up.If you and him don't relay talk than It my be over.
2007-02-16 20:32:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋