right now i am going through a lot of problems with school, work, families and friends. i really like this guy but his best friend told me that he said that he doesnt see me in that way but he respects me and all. the thing is i have like this guy for a very long time now and now i am working with him making it more difficult for me cuz everyday i like him more. i dont have a boyfriend cuz i dont seem 2 find any1 else attractive. he has a girlfriend though we use to attend the same school.i know so many things abt him n that only makes me want 2 know him more. his life is really messed up just like mine but i never got the chance 2 really sit down and tlk 2 him. we r all frenz. me him and his bestfrien n its like they r trying 2 get me a bf becuz they claim i need 1. i dont know what 2 think cuz rite now my life is really messed up an d i am confused. i really like this guy and of all his frenz he is the only1 that doesnt share that feeling.he is da 1st guy that doesnt feel this way
2007-02-16 11:43:26 · 3 answers · asked by Shaneka H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Unrequited love is always the hardest. The only thing you can do is to try and move on from this, as hard as it may be. The stronger your feelings for him, the harder it gets, its a vicious circle. Sometimes though, and I am not saying that this is you, unrequited love becomes an obsession, infatuation to the point of becoming a stalker in the making. Be careful.
2007-02-16 12:01:05 · answer #1 · answered by thedarkstranger999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, it is time to let go. Grow up and get your own life straightened out. Then you can worry about if a boy likes you or not, or if people think you need a best friend. You are confused about something and something has you on the wrong course if you are thinking your life is messed up.
Get some counseling. Get help from someone besides those that think you need a friend.
How can you start a relationship with someone if your life is messed up and their life is messed up. Two messed up lives do not make for a happy or healthy relationship. And he has already said he is not interested.
Get over him and get you life in order. It is time you take control of your life and make yourself happy.
2007-02-16 11:59:23 · answer #2 · answered by Mee-Maw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him!
2007-02-16 11:48:40 · answer #3 · answered by hullygully 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋