if your bi and you get with someone that is hetro.. and both are ok with you being bi.. you fall in love with that person from the opposite sex..and you get married do you ever wish that .. that person was the same sex.. do you miss being bi.. i mean if you got married and was true to them then are you being true to you...
2007-02-16 11:39:07 · 6 answers · asked by ? 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
dont mean to offend and i hope i made sense in what i was asking
2007-02-16 11:40:20 · update #1
I am bi and was married. I would still be married if my wife had not decided she wanted to have sex with someone else. I guess my honest answer is that marriage is a committment. I miss ice cream, but I know that if I want to honor my committment to myself I cant have ice cream. I miss being 22yo. Thats something that I cant change, but I still miss it. If you are bi and you fall in love and you honor that person, that person will become what you want. You wont miss anything and you will have kept your committment. During the marriage, I thought about having an affair, but I couldnt even though I really wanted the sex. I had made a committment.
2007-02-16 11:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by Daniel M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your definition of bi...I've been attracted to women, but as for being in a relationship with them, hell no, they're insane. I would much rather marry a man than seriously date a woman, but I'll still glance around, lol.
The person above is right also, you don't want BOTH, and many bisexuals don't feel that way about both sexes. Like me, they prefer one for serious relationships and possible marriage, but the other one is there for fun if you're single. Read up on the Kinsey scale, it will explain more.
2007-02-16 19:44:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm polygamous, so if I ever married a guy, he'd have to be 100% ok with me sleeping with random women about as much as him. Then again I'd let him do the same and maybe even share with each other. Then again I'm about 75% gay and 15% straight, so I doubt I'll be marrying a guy.
2007-02-17 01:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once I love someone and commit to them (I don't marry, that's another topic), I'm faithful to them. Even though I may notice other men and women, just like heterosexuals that notice others when they are in a committed relationship, I don't act on my thoughts.
I was faithful 15 yrs to a woman. Now I've been faithful to my male partner. It's not about sex; it's about love (who I fall in love with) and commitment (and faithfulness) for me.
2007-02-16 21:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by edith clarke 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that is a very interesting concept.. for me, love is all about the individual, not the genitals. so i would have to say no.
howevrr, many married bisexuals are unhappy and seek additional flings on the side. in some cases, this is done via cheating, while in other cases, they have open threesomes with their spouse and another person.
2007-02-16 21:31:30 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being bisexual doesn't mean one needs BOTH GENDERS to feel "complete", rather one needs EITHER GENDER.
2007-02-16 19:43:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋