I wanted to confront my ex who lied to me about many things. Instead of him confronting me, he had his now ex girlfriend after me, who is the mother of his child call me!!! She was trying to talk to me and ask me what I wanted from him. Who would do something like this>? He always told me she was this and that, now they are best friends. They are both manipulators and liars!! But why would he give her my ph number and have her call me?? Is this someone is filled with pure guilt and shame?? Comments please>>??
2007-02-16 11:21:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Yes, that's my answer. (Always give an answer!) Now First, you answered your own question in your details. You admit you know they are both "manipulators and liars" so that is exactly why he gave her your number!! He is a Game Player! QAAnd you are getting played in Double-time! No, they are Not filled with pure guilt and shame. No. Change your phone number if you can, ignore them instead of trying to get revenge, and hope another guy will find you soon. And I sure hope you find someone better than your Ex!!! (Cause he s***s Big Time!!) @8-)
2007-02-16 11:34:01 · answer #1 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just cut my losses and let him go. While I was dating a guy, I found out he was going online, searching the "alternative" singles sites, going to porn sites, charging the fees to the business account (I worked for him too) Everything just came together, the "business" trips, the missing money from the business, etc.
There was nothing he could say, I didn't care, didn't want to hear the "excuses". He called, I changed my cell number, he came by my apartment, I called a friend of mine who is a police officer. Once a liar, always a liar. Do you really think he'll tell you the truth if you confront him?
2007-02-16 19:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by msuzyq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I am sure that deep down he is filled with self loathing. Otherwise he would not be attracted to the situation he finds himself in. But let's go straight to the point. This is about you. What do you really expect that you are going to get from this person. If you feel like you have something to get off your chest, fine, state it and move on. How much more time do you want to spend trying to figure out this person or even trying to make them feel guilty or see that they are wrong. You are only going to drain yourself of your valuable energy. You just can't figure things like this out and you will drive yourself mad trying to. There are so many other positive things to spend your mind on.
2007-02-16 19:33:10 · answer #3 · answered by ineeddonothing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, you are better off out of this triangle. You know about both of them. It sounds like a little war with allies and such. It can only escalate. If you can, just bow out.
Why waste your time on something that is over for you?
Peace is worth it.
2007-02-16 19:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by Charlie Kicksass 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My 14 year old son wants to legally change his name from Karl to "Cash-Money God". I don't understand the meaning behind it, we are well off but still. I understand why, I changed my name a few years ago to Super-King but thats awesome and bada s s. Should I let him do as he wants?
2007-02-16 19:26:10 · answer #5 · answered by Sardine, Private Inbreastigator 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just a coward, he doesn't want to face up to you himself.
2007-02-16 19:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by blue_girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋